i'm sure you've all heard it before, but i'll ask again anyway:

why would anyone who's had their heart broken after being in a LONG term relationship and marriage ever trust another woman? Especially if they didn't really want kids. Just wanna hear some thoughts from others who've experienced it.

 

Marriage and monogamy will be obsolete in 100 years. Nobody stays married these days because they understand that you can have what you want, whenever you want. Men have never been monogamous, and now, with women earning more and occupying high professional positions their options are now broadened as a result.

2 important rules.

1.) Marriage = stability. Women are naturally needy and unstable, so marriage really only benefits THEM.

2.) If you don't want to have kids, then there is no good reason to get married.

Deep down, men just want a physical relationship with a woman. The other emotional crap is for the woman's benefit.

 

you may be right, my friend, but why lie? why not just be truthful about what you want? don't worry, it's a rhetorical question

 

w/ Rice

Also, there's no such thing as 50/50 anymore. It's all take take take. When it come to love & relationships now everything is upside down. It's really sad.

 

Women can say the same about their ex-husbands, etc.
No women or men are the same, and you have to take chances to find the right one. If your the type that will give up after a relationship, then it will only get worst for you.
Best thing to do is just take your time and enjoy life, if you happen to find the right one then cool , if not then atleast you had fun, instead or getting depression of always having negative thoughts.
But also, I never been in a long relationship so I really dont know how that feels. My longest relationship is 2 months, lol.

 

2 months? i'll take your advise with a grain of salt then

 

Fair enough.

 

Lets not generalize. Just because you don't want any 'emotional crap' doesn't mean some of us don't.

To the OP; all women are not inherently evil, sorry to hear you've had your heartbroken. Sex, Finances, Tax Benefits, home cooked meals, a friend, someone to do shit with are a few non-breeding reasons to learn to love again.

 

I don't know. is food and sex really worth the risk? the tax benefits are nice, though.

 

I assumed there would be one or two guys who would chime in with high horse emotional/morality comments. Tell me though, how emotional do you feel in that 20 mins span AFTER you sleep with a chick? Funny that men don't need women right after the sex is over. Women aren't evil at all, they are essential to the survival of men, and vice versa. My point is that monogamy is just not very realistic, the appearance of monogamy is far more realistic and often times, doable.