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[QUOTE=nofearofdanger,Aug 25 2010, 11:27 AM]Spot on. Speaking from experience, there's no point on dwelling on the past, feeling sorry for yourself. You'll become a romantic anachronism as the rest of the world moves on. Learn from your mistakes (although it may not be your fault 100% of the time) and apply your new found knowledge to future prospects. It may seem like that girl was the best you could ever find, but in the end things came to a close for a reason. Yes, it sucks, but sometimes you just have to wait for time to bring you acceptance and you learn to trust again.
As for monogamy becoming a tradition of the past, I think that is a ridiculous notion. For those guys that thing everything is about superficial motives then I don't even know what to say

 

and it's funny, having said all this, things still aren't over between me and her. just doing the old "hope for the best but prepare for the worst" bit.

 

So true!!

And with dedication and work ethics, most people find it easier to get a new instead of working and respecting their commitments.

I had to give my X the boot because she was a take, take, take kind of person. She has since attempted to crawl back but I dont believe in second chances because people dont and cant change.

I have always followed an important rule with women... never date one youre head over heels for and its safer with a girl who likes you just alittle bit more than you like her.

Gettin burned sucks, but dont let that scar stay with you, good living is the best revenge. Trust me, she will F up again and then remembe how good she had it with you and try to crawl back. From that point you can make it a note to her how happy you are now and all the nice things you new flame does for you.

And as for marriage? Women have a biological clock and us men do not and also in court its usually us men who get F'ed over financially.

 

I don't personally know you, but a lot of people I know that say similar things about not trusting people and getting burned are people that make really bad choices on who to trust.

Take your time before you put your trust in someone, make sure you don't trust them just because you want to fawk them, your dck can mess with your mind and talk you into things that you know you shouldn't do. Just because you've had bad experiences doesn't mean that there aren't people out there that make it worth all the previous crap to find them.

 

DO NOT stick around for this, she will only burn you harder in the end.

A rule of fact!!!! Women hold grudges and tallys no matter what she has said about forgiving you and leaving deeds in the past. Chances are that shes waiting for a chance to blow a resent bomb in your face when you are down or not ontop of your game.

Hope for the best and expect the worst is no way to live, and with most women today they usually run to the desparate chump that bashes you and tells her how perfect she is after she confides in him about a fight you two had. I hear and see it all the time... I even make it clear to any girl that I date when she needs to talk to someone about me, it better be her mom or a close FEMALE friend and if I find out she spoke to a male about our problems its over.

Most guys are desparate chumps with no game or balls, they will attempt to capitalize on a girl in distress by bashing you, telling her how perfect she is yadda yadda yaddda... in hopes of getting laid because shes pissed or hurt by you.

There are the 1 in 100million men like myself who will tell her to grow up and be a woman and work out problems with you and not act like such a selfish bitch... but chances that she is talking to a dude like me are very rare.

Dont do this to yourself, but we already know you will and understand that pussy is the most addictive drug known to man.

 

Absolutely. Although sometimes I do wonder if you follow this then you're reserving your true emotions and not taking a risk which may result in even more happiness. IMO taking a risk and getting burned is better than having nothing at all.

 

Ya I guess I can not say always or never, just gotta take it as it comes.

 

If sh#t does end up hitting the fan, then make sure you don't just put yourself in a hole and sit down in the dumps. Seize the opportunity to do all those things you couldn't previously, be self-sufficient with happiness and you will feel so much better.

 

that's right. no malice intended, but you don't know me. i get your point but it's hard not to trust your parents or a woman you've known and loved for years.