My Dilemma...
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Originally Posted by gotrice02,Jan 24 2007, 01:12 PM
bringing this chick will probably kill your chances at scoring any women at this wedding. It sounds like her life sucks enough right now, what will making her jealous accomplish? All in all, it is a stupid plan and here's why..
1.) If you have the same friends, you ex will eventually find out that the pregnant girl you brought to the wedding was not your girl and the attempt to make her jealous only made you look more pathetic.
2.) Going to weddings when you are single is awesome and taking a date will imply you are taken.
3.) Your plan isn't a good revenge plan, I would just let it go and act as if she never existed. You're "revenge" is a re-action that women love to see...let it go.
1.) If you have the same friends, you ex will eventually find out that the pregnant girl you brought to the wedding was not your girl and the attempt to make her jealous only made you look more pathetic.
2.) Going to weddings when you are single is awesome and taking a date will imply you are taken.
3.) Your plan isn't a good revenge plan, I would just let it go and act as if she never existed. You're "revenge" is a re-action that women love to see...let it go.
Seriously though. Sounds like you should be happy as hell to be rid of this chick. I know I would be. The best way to get back at her is to show her that you really don't care anymore. If you go through with your lame plan she WILL find out and it WILL make you look lame.
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I don't even know where to begin or why I should bother. What the hell is the matter with people? Where do they come up with this shit? Even when I was 21, I wasn't 1/4 this stupid.
To the OP, get on with your life (it's been 18 months!); leave the pregnant chick at home; and let the damn day be about your friend and his wedding. Who knows? You may actually have fun sharing one of the most important days of your friend's life with him, and you may actually meet some other chick at the wedding who is drunk enough to be interested in you. How hard is that?
To the OP, get on with your life (it's been 18 months!); leave the pregnant chick at home; and let the damn day be about your friend and his wedding. Who knows? You may actually have fun sharing one of the most important days of your friend's life with him, and you may actually meet some other chick at the wedding who is drunk enough to be interested in you. How hard is that?
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Originally Posted by Ubetit,Jan 24 2007, 01:23 PM
Pathetic
Seriously. Show up stag. Go through the ceremony (Lord knows why you agreed to move in with her. Lord knows why you agreed to being a groomsman). Go to the reception stag. Pull an Upper Decker, then leave.
If you're not keen on the reception shenanigans, go to the ceremony, then leave.
Your life is almost perfect: You're young, single, and you got rid of one source of drama in your life (the ex-gf). WHY THE
ARE YOU TRYING TO COMPLICATE YOUR LIFE BY BRINGING A SINGLE-MOM-IN-TRAINING?!?!?!?!
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From: WecantevergobacktoArizona
Why would you want to make an overweight, debt ridden whore jealous. The key to revenge is doing better than you were the last time she saw you.
Lose some weight, make sure you look good, and give a killer toast. Make sure you speak to her and silently pity her from the inside. Flirt with the other bridesmaids at the rehersal dinner, but not too overtly. But generaly let the weekend be about your friend.
NOW, if you do these things correctly she will try to sleep with you after the wedding.......Don't do it..........never give her the satisfaction. Tell her thank you and reply "aw girl you don't really want to do that" and smile.
I have a girl that dumped me 6 years ago and now that she is married and miserable, just seperated after 8 months, living with her mom in a 1 bedroom apartment because her mom lost their PAID FOR HOUSE by re-mortgaging it..........she calls me everyweek asking to sleep with me and how she should have stayed with me because i am doing so well........My life would be know where if I had stayed with that chick and I thank God everyday for making her dump me. Although I didn't see it then.
Lose some weight, make sure you look good, and give a killer toast. Make sure you speak to her and silently pity her from the inside. Flirt with the other bridesmaids at the rehersal dinner, but not too overtly. But generaly let the weekend be about your friend.
NOW, if you do these things correctly she will try to sleep with you after the wedding.......Don't do it..........never give her the satisfaction. Tell her thank you and reply "aw girl you don't really want to do that" and smile.
I have a girl that dumped me 6 years ago and now that she is married and miserable, just seperated after 8 months, living with her mom in a 1 bedroom apartment because her mom lost their PAID FOR HOUSE by re-mortgaging it..........she calls me everyweek asking to sleep with me and how she should have stayed with me because i am doing so well........My life would be know where if I had stayed with that chick and I thank God everyday for making her dump me. Although I didn't see it then.