[QUOTE=VTEC_Junkie,Jan 21 2007, 08:24 PM] dude, YOU grow up.

 

Why did you break up with her in the first place?

I like friends with similar interests, not girlfriends with similar interests. I understand wanting to have similar interests, do you really want to be attached at the hip?

Why the hell do you share money accounts with your gf? Stop that crap right now.

 

thats bad news waiting to happen.

 

yes!! i know i'm not the exact same person i was 5 years ago, and i'd be willing to venture that you aren't either. the beauty of life is that we are all continuously evolving as individuals.

 

^^if you say so...

 

^^i'd say it's just the fact that you ran in to her, and that's what keeping her in your mind. give it sometime and you'll forget it.

 

The grass is not greener elsewhere. You can always find someone to escape your current relationship conflicts. Why don't you try putting more effort into your current relationship.

Like TALKING to your current girlfriend and maybe coming up with compromises between cars and handbags.

Like if she's counting on you for rides to stop crabbing about your mod money.

But if you guys are having money conflicts / disagreements, split your accounts and credit cards.

And try to schedule in a date night or some time to look at each other with fresh eyes.

 

^^ if you choose not to think so...

 

I'll give you an advice. Do not ask for relationship advice on the internet. Most people here are not professionals. Do what your guts tell you to.

 

i think his gut tells him to ask for advice on s2ki.com...