weird. Girls like it just as much as boys. Something doesn't seem right here.

 

You can respect her decision, it doesn't mean that you have to be the patsy though. You have the right to live your life. If her sexual proclivites (or lack thereof) aren't copascetic, then leave.

That is not your responsibility. Give it up. It's not in your job description. Walk away. Be friendly, but walk away.

Okay, it's you versus her religious beliefs. Who's gonna win? Okay, so if you do win, was it a legitimate win? Is begging for it worth the results? I say, "no," but that's just me.

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. You're not a doctor. I'm not a doctor. You're not her, and it sure as not your responsibility either way. Walk.

Good. Buck for management and/or Senior Engineer or Technical Director. You've still got a lot of work ahead of you. Keep your eyes on the prize. . . and no, girls aren't the prize. Your potential for a whole and abundant life is the prize (women included).

 

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Thanks for all the responses guys... and girls

Beb - I decided to bring her back, but after all these responses I'm inclining not to.

 

she may have been raped, assaulted, molested by someone.

 

wtf

where do u draw these conclusions from?

 

There's sometime a reluctance towards sex for an obvious, but not discussed reason. . . like childhood molestation.

 

Tat's the 2nd thing that ran to my mind. The first was I thought she was lesbian. I asked her that and she get real furious... I dare not ask her the 2nd.

 

so girls that wont bang u are lesbian or abused? lol...over analyzing. maybe she just isnt physically attracted to u and lacks the social skills to let you know.

 

It's certainly possible. Where do I draw my "conclusions" (which really are more like speculations) from? My undergrad and work experience with sexual assualt/sexual abuse victims/survivors. People's sex lives are absolutely impacted by the experience of sexual assault/abuse - some put up physical walls, some become promiscuous, etc. etc.

 

Probably a good call not to ask her if she's been sexually assaulted. It's an intensely difficult thing to talk about and depending on how long ago it happened, how/if she's started really dealing with it, you're just going to put more pressure on her.

There are countless possible explanations about why she is choosing the path she is. Have you tried talking to her about it? And I don't mean saying stuff like If you loved me... If you want a serious relationship with her, good communication is key. On the other hand, if you just want a piece of ass, move on.