Relationship advice
Originally Posted by npham,Jan 12 2007, 03:36 PM
I don't want to get back with her, I just want to get OVER her. Maybe closure sex is what I need, maybe not. Won't know until it happens.
Originally Posted by Sleepy,Jan 12 2007, 03:42 PM
get a new girl.
IMHO 'Closure sex' is an oxymoron.
IMHO 'Closure sex' is an oxymoron.
get a new girl. = long term solution (nobody cares about long term right after they break up)
Even if my ex paid me a large sum of money, I'd never sleep with him again.
Come to think of it, nothing that I can think of would cause me to sleep with him again.
I"m not so sure of my thoughts on closure sex, perhaps it comes from my reluctance to enter into a relationship until I see a future there, or the fact that my breakups usually end up turn into friendships or not speaking at all, there's usually not any "hook up for a bit after" area there.
To each their own though, and if it was good and you want more and both parties are OK with that... can't say I disagree with the concept!
Come to think of it, nothing that I can think of would cause me to sleep with him again.
I"m not so sure of my thoughts on closure sex, perhaps it comes from my reluctance to enter into a relationship until I see a future there, or the fact that my breakups usually end up turn into friendships or not speaking at all, there's usually not any "hook up for a bit after" area there.
To each their own though, and if it was good and you want more and both parties are OK with that... can't say I disagree with the concept!
Originally Posted by Sleepy,Jan 12 2007, 02:42 PM
Want to get over her? Only solution = get a new girl.
But I'm starting school on Monday, so we'll see how that goes.
Originally Posted by npham,Jan 12 2007, 04:00 PM
Hahaha. You are a great form of entertainment gotrice. Just curious, what nationality are you?


