Originally Posted by SkyRollin,Aug 28 2008, 02:27 PM

Here's the complete story from an PM message I was having with Dj E..

Her and I started dating only about 5 months ago and at first, everything was great. We got along well, had a great sex life, and enjoyed spending a lot of our free time together. As thing progressed, i questioned her lack of affection and she basically dropped the bomb on me that she was molested by her stepfather (who she was still living with) when she was 8-13 years of age. Supposedly, her mother knew about it and decided to "turn the cheek" and dismiss her daughter's claims.

After hearing this, I was taken aback and seriously questioned if I wanted to get involved in this mess, especially since I strongly disagreed with her decision to live under his roof her whole life afterward. How can I respect someone who allows themselves to be a victim? She is 23 now and still lives there.

Anyway, I decide to stand by her side because I care about her and respect the courage it took to tell me that. About 3 weeks later, she shows up at my place with a monster sized scrape/bruise on her face. i immediately flip and ask what the hell happened to her. Supposedly, she was jumped outside of her bar for flagging a drunk and the drunk girl was waiting outside for her. i find out later that this is a lie and it was her ex b/f that showed up at her home after work and drug her across the pavement. I suspect this was a lie as well because how could no one have heard anything, nor did she make a police report. Shady.

After all this, mind you, I manage to stick around. At the time, I was living a good 35 minutes away from her and she would drive to see me EVERY time. This wasn't at my request, but I lived alone and she didn't, so I didn't question anything at the time.

I move closer to my family and friends, and her, I might add in mid July. now she is only 15 minutes away. We officially become bf and gf after I caught her in a lie, which was the b/f messing up her face. I am about to call it quits, just because I don't like being lied to by people that I place my trust in, but she is grovelling, so I decide to take her back and make her my g/f.

After a few weeks of fighting about her being unaffectionate and having no desire to improve her current situation in life, we break up. since then, she has pretended to be her mom in a txt message and said that she committed suicide, banged some dude immediately after breaking up with me, and probably jumped back on Xanax again.

In addition to all of that, she has tattoos that I don't like, she cut her hair extremely short, which is a turn off for me, and is a chain smoker.

Oh, she owes me 100 bucks too.

I guess the question really is.. what the hell was I thinking???

LOL I wrote this entire thing in 9 minutes wink.gif

Originally Posted by 8D_In_Trunk,Sep 2 2008, 01:23 AM

Too high an elevation for either?

Originally Posted by SkyRollin,Aug 28 2008, 08:49 AM

I've definitely read some good feedback so far. Maybe the insecurity IS on my part; maybe I yen to be needed because it makes me feel important. Lucid point.

Feel free to dig into me , s2ki; I have hard skin.