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Originally Posted by 03rsxnj,Aug 28 2008, 03:53 PM
in philly you will find tons of girls that will suck on anything that walks past them and saays hi
Raj, I won't find one with all of her teeth, that's for sure
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Here's the complete story from an PM message I was having with Dj E..
Her and I started dating only about 5 months ago and at first, everything was great. We got along well, had a great sex life, and enjoyed spending a lot of our free time together. As thing progressed, i questioned her lack of affection and she basically dropped the bomb on me that she was molested by her stepfather (who she was still living with) when she was 8-13 years of age. Supposedly, her mother knew about it and decided to "turn the cheek" and dismiss her daughter's claims.
After hearing this, I was taken aback and seriously questioned if I wanted to get involved in this mess, especially since I strongly disagreed with her decision to live under his roof her whole life afterward. How can I respect someone who allows themselves to be a victim? She is 23 now and still lives there.
Anyway, I decide to stand by her side because I care about her and respect the courage it took to tell me that. About 3 weeks later, she shows up at my place with a monster sized scrape/bruise on her face. i immediately flip and ask what the hell happened to her. Supposedly, she was jumped outside of her bar for flagging a drunk and the drunk girl was waiting outside for her. i find out later that this is a lie and it was her ex b/f that showed up at her home after work and drug her across the pavement. I suspect this was a lie as well because how could no one have heard anything, nor did she make a police report. Shady.
After all this, mind you, I manage to stick around. At the time, I was living a good 35 minutes away from her and she would drive to see me EVERY time. This wasn't at my request, but I lived alone and she didn't, so I didn't question anything at the time.
I move closer to my family and friends, and her, I might add in mid July. now she is only 15 minutes away. We officially become bf and gf after I caught her in a lie, which was the b/f messing up her face. I am about to call it quits, just because I don't like being lied to by people that I place my trust in, but she is grovelling, so I decide to take her back and make her my g/f.
After a few weeks of fighting about her being unaffectionate and having no desire to improve her current situation in life, we break up. since then, she has pretended to be her mom in a txt message and said that she committed suicide, banged some dude immediately after breaking up with me, and probably jumped back on Xanax again.
In addition to all of that, she has tattoos that I don't like, she cut her hair extremely short, which is a turn off for me, and is a chain smoker.
Oh, she owes me 100 bucks too.
I guess the question really is.. what the hell was I thinking???
LOL I wrote this entire thing in 9 minutes wink.gif
Her and I started dating only about 5 months ago and at first, everything was great. We got along well, had a great sex life, and enjoyed spending a lot of our free time together. As thing progressed, i questioned her lack of affection and she basically dropped the bomb on me that she was molested by her stepfather (who she was still living with) when she was 8-13 years of age. Supposedly, her mother knew about it and decided to "turn the cheek" and dismiss her daughter's claims.
After hearing this, I was taken aback and seriously questioned if I wanted to get involved in this mess, especially since I strongly disagreed with her decision to live under his roof her whole life afterward. How can I respect someone who allows themselves to be a victim? She is 23 now and still lives there.
Anyway, I decide to stand by her side because I care about her and respect the courage it took to tell me that. About 3 weeks later, she shows up at my place with a monster sized scrape/bruise on her face. i immediately flip and ask what the hell happened to her. Supposedly, she was jumped outside of her bar for flagging a drunk and the drunk girl was waiting outside for her. i find out later that this is a lie and it was her ex b/f that showed up at her home after work and drug her across the pavement. I suspect this was a lie as well because how could no one have heard anything, nor did she make a police report. Shady.
After all this, mind you, I manage to stick around. At the time, I was living a good 35 minutes away from her and she would drive to see me EVERY time. This wasn't at my request, but I lived alone and she didn't, so I didn't question anything at the time.
I move closer to my family and friends, and her, I might add in mid July. now she is only 15 minutes away. We officially become bf and gf after I caught her in a lie, which was the b/f messing up her face. I am about to call it quits, just because I don't like being lied to by people that I place my trust in, but she is grovelling, so I decide to take her back and make her my g/f.
After a few weeks of fighting about her being unaffectionate and having no desire to improve her current situation in life, we break up. since then, she has pretended to be her mom in a txt message and said that she committed suicide, banged some dude immediately after breaking up with me, and probably jumped back on Xanax again.
In addition to all of that, she has tattoos that I don't like, she cut her hair extremely short, which is a turn off for me, and is a chain smoker.
Oh, she owes me 100 bucks too.
I guess the question really is.. what the hell was I thinking???
LOL I wrote this entire thing in 9 minutes wink.gif
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All women are crazy and looking to blame parents, boyfriends, husbands, anyone but themselves for their situation in life. And, to add to their misery, no woman has ever let anything go in the history of humankind. They will hold onto shit until they die. They are physically incapable of forgiveness even for the sake of their own mental health. I think this is what started the whole gay movement way back when. Self defense.
You can't "fix" a woman wih a victim complex. It's part of them like blond hair or small boobs. So don't try. Look for one with minimal issues. There aren't any with no issues so, don't spend your life looking for that either. Balance the head and heart.
You can't "fix" a woman wih a victim complex. It's part of them like blond hair or small boobs. So don't try. Look for one with minimal issues. There aren't any with no issues so, don't spend your life looking for that either. Balance the head and heart.
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Originally Posted by SpudRacer,Aug 28 2008, 07:11 PM
All women are crazy and looking to blame parents, boyfriends, husbands, anyone but themselves for their situation in life. And, to add to their misery, no woman has ever let anything go in the history of humankind. They will hold onto shit until they die. They are physically incapable of forgiveness even for the sake of their own mental health. I think this is what started the whole gay movement way back when. Self defense.
You can't "fix" a woman wih a victim complex. It's part of them like blond hair or small boobs. So don't try. Look for one with minimal issues. There aren't any with no issues so, don't spend your life looking for that either. Balance the head and heart.
You can't "fix" a woman wih a victim complex. It's part of them like blond hair or small boobs. So don't try. Look for one with minimal issues. There aren't any with no issues so, don't spend your life looking for that either. Balance the head and heart.
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Originally Posted by 03rsxnj,Aug 28 2008, 11:02 AM
well i stumbled upon this and il igve my insight
relationship success is not tied to personal success your degree your good paying job and your nice car all do nothing for a relationship so there was no reason to bring them up for any reason other then self gratification
most people when looking for a partner want someone thats going to intrigue them and cause them to have more fun then normal when they are with that person
so going on that basis no offense but your life seems pretty boring so why would you be interested in someone who has a similar life style when they most likely will be boring so you do what most people would do look for someone fun to spice things up in your boring 9-5 life style this is whats causing you to go fro girls that are unstable and have more mental issues
how to fix it:
stop being boring break your routine from time to time go new places meet new people and then you will not only open your self up to a larger market of women but you also wont be subconsciously looking for someone to make your life interesting which will draw you to more normal down to earth yet still fun girls
cliffs: stop being boring and you'll stop seeking out bat shit crazy girls
relationship success is not tied to personal success your degree your good paying job and your nice car all do nothing for a relationship so there was no reason to bring them up for any reason other then self gratification
most people when looking for a partner want someone thats going to intrigue them and cause them to have more fun then normal when they are with that person
so going on that basis no offense but your life seems pretty boring so why would you be interested in someone who has a similar life style when they most likely will be boring so you do what most people would do look for someone fun to spice things up in your boring 9-5 life style this is whats causing you to go fro girls that are unstable and have more mental issues
how to fix it:
stop being boring break your routine from time to time go new places meet new people and then you will not only open your self up to a larger market of women but you also wont be subconsciously looking for someone to make your life interesting which will draw you to more normal down to earth yet still fun girls
cliffs: stop being boring and you'll stop seeking out bat shit crazy girls
if i were him, i'd disregard based on your grammar, and thats coming from someone who doesn't take internet lingo too seriously.
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Originally Posted by SkyRollin,Aug 28 2008, 02:27 PM
Here's the complete story from an PM message I was having with Dj E..
Her and I started dating only about 5 months ago and at first, everything was great. We got along well, had a great sex life, and enjoyed spending a lot of our free time together. As thing progressed, i questioned her lack of affection and she basically dropped the bomb on me that she was molested by her stepfather (who she was still living with) when she was 8-13 years of age. Supposedly, her mother knew about it and decided to "turn the cheek" and dismiss her daughter's claims.
After hearing this, I was taken aback and seriously questioned if I wanted to get involved in this mess, especially since I strongly disagreed with her decision to live under his roof her whole life afterward. How can I respect someone who allows themselves to be a victim? She is 23 now and still lives there.
Anyway, I decide to stand by her side because I care about her and respect the courage it took to tell me that. About 3 weeks later, she shows up at my place with a monster sized scrape/bruise on her face. i immediately flip and ask what the hell happened to her. Supposedly, she was jumped outside of her bar for flagging a drunk and the drunk girl was waiting outside for her. i find out later that this is a lie and it was her ex b/f that showed up at her home after work and drug her across the pavement. I suspect this was a lie as well because how could no one have heard anything, nor did she make a police report. Shady.
After all this, mind you, I manage to stick around. At the time, I was living a good 35 minutes away from her and she would drive to see me EVERY time. This wasn't at my request, but I lived alone and she didn't, so I didn't question anything at the time.
I move closer to my family and friends, and her, I might add in mid July. now she is only 15 minutes away. We officially become bf and gf after I caught her in a lie, which was the b/f messing up her face. I am about to call it quits, just because I don't like being lied to by people that I place my trust in, but she is grovelling, so I decide to take her back and make her my g/f.
After a few weeks of fighting about her being unaffectionate and having no desire to improve her current situation in life, we break up. since then, she has pretended to be her mom in a txt message and said that she committed suicide, banged some dude immediately after breaking up with me, and probably jumped back on Xanax again.
In addition to all of that, she has tattoos that I don't like, she cut her hair extremely short, which is a turn off for me, and is a chain smoker.
Oh, she owes me 100 bucks too.
I guess the question really is.. what the hell was I thinking???
LOL I wrote this entire thing in 9 minutes wink.gif
Her and I started dating only about 5 months ago and at first, everything was great. We got along well, had a great sex life, and enjoyed spending a lot of our free time together. As thing progressed, i questioned her lack of affection and she basically dropped the bomb on me that she was molested by her stepfather (who she was still living with) when she was 8-13 years of age. Supposedly, her mother knew about it and decided to "turn the cheek" and dismiss her daughter's claims.
After hearing this, I was taken aback and seriously questioned if I wanted to get involved in this mess, especially since I strongly disagreed with her decision to live under his roof her whole life afterward. How can I respect someone who allows themselves to be a victim? She is 23 now and still lives there.
Anyway, I decide to stand by her side because I care about her and respect the courage it took to tell me that. About 3 weeks later, she shows up at my place with a monster sized scrape/bruise on her face. i immediately flip and ask what the hell happened to her. Supposedly, she was jumped outside of her bar for flagging a drunk and the drunk girl was waiting outside for her. i find out later that this is a lie and it was her ex b/f that showed up at her home after work and drug her across the pavement. I suspect this was a lie as well because how could no one have heard anything, nor did she make a police report. Shady.
After all this, mind you, I manage to stick around. At the time, I was living a good 35 minutes away from her and she would drive to see me EVERY time. This wasn't at my request, but I lived alone and she didn't, so I didn't question anything at the time.
I move closer to my family and friends, and her, I might add in mid July. now she is only 15 minutes away. We officially become bf and gf after I caught her in a lie, which was the b/f messing up her face. I am about to call it quits, just because I don't like being lied to by people that I place my trust in, but she is grovelling, so I decide to take her back and make her my g/f.
After a few weeks of fighting about her being unaffectionate and having no desire to improve her current situation in life, we break up. since then, she has pretended to be her mom in a txt message and said that she committed suicide, banged some dude immediately after breaking up with me, and probably jumped back on Xanax again.
In addition to all of that, she has tattoos that I don't like, she cut her hair extremely short, which is a turn off for me, and is a chain smoker.
Oh, she owes me 100 bucks too.
I guess the question really is.. what the hell was I thinking???
LOL I wrote this entire thing in 9 minutes wink.gif
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Originally Posted by SkyRollin,Aug 28 2008, 02:27 PM
Here's the complete story from an PM message I was having with Dj E..
Her and I started dating only about 5 months ago and at first, everything was great. We got along well, had a great sex life, and enjoyed spending a lot of our free time together. As thing progressed, i questioned her lack of affection and she basically dropped the bomb on me that she was molested by her stepfather (who she was still living with) when she was 8-13 years of age. Supposedly, her mother knew about it and decided to "turn the cheek" and dismiss her daughter's claims.
After hearing this, I was taken aback and seriously questioned if I wanted to get involved in this mess, especially since I strongly disagreed with her decision to live under his roof her whole life afterward. How can I respect someone who allows themselves to be a victim? She is 23 now and still lives there.
Anyway, I decide to stand by her side because I care about her and respect the courage it took to tell me that. About 3 weeks later, she shows up at my place with a monster sized scrape/bruise on her face. i immediately flip and ask what the hell happened to her. Supposedly, she was jumped outside of her bar for flagging a drunk and the drunk girl was waiting outside for her. i find out later that this is a lie and it was her ex b/f that showed up at her home after work and drug her across the pavement. I suspect this was a lie as well because how could no one have heard anything, nor did she make a police report. Shady.
After all this, mind you, I manage to stick around. At the time, I was living a good 35 minutes away from her and she would drive to see me EVERY time. This wasn't at my request, but I lived alone and she didn't, so I didn't question anything at the time.
I move closer to my family and friends, and her, I might add in mid July. now she is only 15 minutes away. We officially become bf and gf after I caught her in a lie, which was the b/f messing up her face. I am about to call it quits, just because I don't like being lied to by people that I place my trust in, but she is grovelling, so I decide to take her back and make her my g/f.
After a few weeks of fighting about her being unaffectionate and having no desire to improve her current situation in life, we break up. since then, she has pretended to be her mom in a txt message and said that she committed suicide, banged some dude immediately after breaking up with me, and probably jumped back on Xanax again.
In addition to all of that, she has tattoos that I don't like, she cut her hair extremely short, which is a turn off for me, and is a chain smoker.
Oh, she owes me 100 bucks too.
I guess the question really is.. what the hell was I thinking???
LOL I wrote this entire thing in 9 minutes wink.gif
Her and I started dating only about 5 months ago and at first, everything was great. We got along well, had a great sex life, and enjoyed spending a lot of our free time together. As thing progressed, i questioned her lack of affection and she basically dropped the bomb on me that she was molested by her stepfather (who she was still living with) when she was 8-13 years of age. Supposedly, her mother knew about it and decided to "turn the cheek" and dismiss her daughter's claims.
After hearing this, I was taken aback and seriously questioned if I wanted to get involved in this mess, especially since I strongly disagreed with her decision to live under his roof her whole life afterward. How can I respect someone who allows themselves to be a victim? She is 23 now and still lives there.
Anyway, I decide to stand by her side because I care about her and respect the courage it took to tell me that. About 3 weeks later, she shows up at my place with a monster sized scrape/bruise on her face. i immediately flip and ask what the hell happened to her. Supposedly, she was jumped outside of her bar for flagging a drunk and the drunk girl was waiting outside for her. i find out later that this is a lie and it was her ex b/f that showed up at her home after work and drug her across the pavement. I suspect this was a lie as well because how could no one have heard anything, nor did she make a police report. Shady.
After all this, mind you, I manage to stick around. At the time, I was living a good 35 minutes away from her and she would drive to see me EVERY time. This wasn't at my request, but I lived alone and she didn't, so I didn't question anything at the time.
I move closer to my family and friends, and her, I might add in mid July. now she is only 15 minutes away. We officially become bf and gf after I caught her in a lie, which was the b/f messing up her face. I am about to call it quits, just because I don't like being lied to by people that I place my trust in, but she is grovelling, so I decide to take her back and make her my g/f.
After a few weeks of fighting about her being unaffectionate and having no desire to improve her current situation in life, we break up. since then, she has pretended to be her mom in a txt message and said that she committed suicide, banged some dude immediately after breaking up with me, and probably jumped back on Xanax again.
In addition to all of that, she has tattoos that I don't like, she cut her hair extremely short, which is a turn off for me, and is a chain smoker.
Oh, she owes me 100 bucks too.
I guess the question really is.. what the hell was I thinking???
LOL I wrote this entire thing in 9 minutes wink.gif
When you said she was crazy, I thought she just had a little self esteem problem or something. This chick is TOTALLY screwed up! I'm shocked that you stayed with her as long as you have! The first time a girl threatens that she will kill herself, I will just ask her to just stay away from my car.
....blood is hard to get out of the seats...