so bitter..........

 

I auto-x'ed my car for awhile there, but I havent been doing it lately. Im not saying that all nice guys are like that either. People that think a stereotype fits everyone are pretty ignorant, so I do agree with you. But, out of my experience, and one of my ex boyfriends who would never stand up for me when his friends talked crap in my face, ive just been used to this "sterotype". But again, your right, you can not say all nice guys are like that. And the whole, good in bed thing...that was just for kicks! Id have to be a whore to know if that was true.

thanks Presidente and FL05s2k, much love, much love

 

Ok, just for the sake of discussion, give me an example.

When, where, and how do you want a guy to stick up for you?

 

well my ex's friend insulted me right to my face, in front of my ex, about my appearance...i forgot exactly what he said but it was something about me physically. I remeber the insult was pretty intense, and totally uncalled for. But that ass just stood there and didnt even open his mouth. I just stood there, looking at him, like a fool thinking (wow you really dont care if your friends talk to me like that)... relationship went downhill from there. Now im not a drama queen im not expecting anyone's ass to get beat, but you can at least say, "shut the f up, a comeback, anything to show disapproval and that it was unacceptable behavior... not let him get away with it and think he did nothing wrong. I guess you could consider the "friend" an asshole. In the end, I should have said/done something, but I guess I was in shock.

 

The best part is that now he is an "ex".

 

werd

 

As if it hasn't been said enough, as if common sense doesn't point it out.

Women want a gentleman, not a "nice guy" or an "Whole,ass"

A man that has balls, will stick up for themselves, and yet do it with class.

For some reason this creature isn't prevalent.

Nice guys were the ones that listened to their mommies when they were growing up, a select few grow balls then become gentlemen. Rarely does it work the other way. Whole asses don't tend to start to be considerate empathetic people. It even rarer than nice guy growing balls. However the mommies boy is SO much more unattractive that women gravitate toward the dark side. Hence more inexperience inpatient women get stuck with whole asses early on and if the remain inpatient they might never meet the gentleman.

I would recommend that a woman never even think of getting serious with a guy unless that guy is older than 28. As a rule of thumb until then most men are too much of one or the other, you won't find too many evolved gentleman that are yonger than 28. Be patient and just try to have fun until you meet him.

If you noticed in that list the word challange kept coming up. The drama/excitement of not knowing everything and not being sure what they think or what will happen next. Gentleman have the stones not to call right back with an I love you forever mentality. Nice guys do that a lot and asshole never call back because they don't care. A gentleman has a reasonable restraint and sense of realism over his emotions so its a shared charactoristic with the asshole.

 

You better be at the Sept meet! Are you planning on going up to the Dragon in Sept also?

 

i completely agree with you exceltoexcel, but I dont ever meet men that old, not that I wouldnt want to... It just never happens, I guess its just the younger crowd that is attracted to me. But I completely agree about the age and class thing.

 

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