I may be a little late to the party but I think an introverted inspection must be made before determining whether or not a man "can or will" satisfy a woman's needs. I do not claim to know what women want nor do I claim to know what motivates or drives them. I believe that's a topic that can be shared by someone who knows more about feminine hygiene products.

I wholeheartedly believe the term "gentlemen" used earlier is a good starting point in finding the universal, amiable traits of a man. In my opinion, gentlemen place honesty and respect first and foremost. However, with those characteristics, men can vary greatly. For example, a man can be a gentlemen but short-tempered and disillusioned (aka stubborn and uneducated) and still be someone pleasant to be around if those qualities are acceptable. Another man could be agressive and opinionated (ex. a fervent political activist). These other qualities do not take away from the core even if the person exhibits honesty and respect in a distorted fashion. Personalities vary depending on core beliefs, environments, education, current situation, and past events. I believe some women can be misled to perceive a man to be something he's not. I also believe some women mislead themselves to interpret things incorrectly as well. No one knows what you want but yourself and even that can change. If you take the time to get to know someone and you're not completely satisfied, you can/should walk away at any time. Take responsibility for your actions and choices.

So there you have it. Definitions vary and perceptions vary. You ladies might not want to talk to that shy dork in the corner just because his glasses are thicker than your heels, I respect that. But please keep in mind that the hot guy in a band you're dating should be honest and respectful towards you as well. Physical attraction is one thing, finding someone that'll treat you right after 20 years is another. Sometimes you get someone with both if you sample the pool enough!

P.S. I don't think girls that have been in many relationships are sluts. They just need more time to figure out what they want. I know what I want and I need someone that knows what she wants too.

 

meet the guy a woman is with and you'll learn all you need to know about her.

 

Very good points 2wheels...

Obviously just because a guy is a gentleman doesn't mean he's compatible with every woman just like a true "lady", for lack of a better term to describe the female compliment, isn't going to be compatible with every man.

FYI "lady" was often used to refer to prostitutes but has since taken on the very different meaning of feminine class.

We have yet to discuss one of the contributing reasons why men have degraded as well. Women who are assholes, have no class, and are about a feminine as Arnold Schwartz, who don't deserve the time of day. I've seen a large amount of this being walking the planet as well.

 

There is a difference between being nice and testing my patience. I hate when a girl tries to hint at something, i prefer a girl who says what she wants. I have much more respect for the up-front woman. And it is funny seeing these people end up with some guy who picks them up ALL the time, listens to her ALL the time, ties her shoes, and takes a scolding from her no matter who is at fault. I feel sorry for that guy.

DAMN, i need to fiind a good Pimp school.



I shave my ballz!

 

...and some guys might be avid PC haters

 

did i ever mention i own a PC.

 

You probably torture it everyday. See look how pretty the MAC is compared to you, I'm going to give you a virus sucker.

j/l

 

I'm the nice guy that will beatdown the asshole!

 

By now this is off topic, but I just love the title to this thread - I would sure hope it's true!



It puts a smile on my face everytime I come across it on the forum topic list.