friend told me about an interesting situation from a magazine. either men's journal or men's health or one of those.

guy says he loves his gf. says she's got a great personality, great person, etc. he's dated many women and realizes how rare a person she is. only thing is that he doesn't think she's attractive. he didn't specify if it was the face or specific part. just that he wonders about being with a really attractive person even though he might not be able to find one with great qualities like his gf already has, etc.

can u relate/understand and what would you do?

 

If he didn't find her attractive why would he date her in the first place? What a waste of his time and her time. The thing with looks vs personality/attitude is well once you've been with her long enough she isn't pretty forever but her personality and attitude stays the same.

 

It's harder to find a girl with a great personality than one with great looks. I would pick the one with the personality and talk her into getting surgery to make her look hot. Nowdays they can make anyone look like a 10.

 

The grass is always greener on the other side.

 

i can see that happening.... I just sold a house to this woman (and husband)... she was overweight but funny as hell..... i got a long great with her...... not sure how she would be in a relationship, but I really enjoyed being around her.....


just do her doggie style so you don't hvae to look at that ugly ass face....

 

when looking for a girl I say I go for 40% looks and and 60%personality.meaning personality is more important to me but she has to look atleast average.maybe a 6 out of 10.you do have to look at her when you wake up every morning.

 

And how would you rate the girl in your avatar?

 

10 for looks

 

I wouldn't even care about her personality. It's not like we'd talk much

 

your wee wee can only take so much..then your gonna want to stop and rest/talk.