I agree with this except for the "hold off on sleeping with them" bit.

If you're truly out to relax, and get your personal groove back, then you catch-as-catch can. If you're capable of just having sex, and not attaching some high drama to it, then you should. If you sit there and say to yourself "I'm not gonna do ___ with ___ until ___ happens in my life," then you're just setting youself up for some sort of neuroses that'll guarantee a bad time.

Also, you should usually "strike while the iron is hot." Women subconciously know when you're on your game, and they're drawn to it. Date 4 (or more) women at the same time, because the days that happens are few. Make the most of them (but do be safe).

That said, if you're not having fun, you're probably not doing it right.

 

I would say back off, not see her for a couple weeks, do other things - go on vacation etc. and see how it goes. She may have feelings for you that she may realize when she has some space. Good luck.

 

So I got another call from her today, after not hearing from her for a few. It went a little something like this...

Her: "How can you be over me already? After a year and a half you seem fine after a week and a half?"

Me: "Um... I tried for a month to convince you I loved you, and you told me to stop wasting my time. I finally listened?"

Her (crying): "I just didn't think you'd be over it so quick."

Girls. Go figure.

 

You should've ended the second line with a period, not a question mark.

 

 

Chicks have no clue what they want...

 

sometimes thats a good thing

 

i have never seen #2 abreviated before but I am pretty sure I know what it stands for and I am LMAO...

as they would say on another forum I frequent:
fork, neck, curb....

 

If you want her to come back to you just hook up with someone else and make sure she is hotter than the previous. Then she will be jealous and come running back. I'm going throught that right now. Then I turned her down, and she is practically begging now. I'm wondering where things are going next.

 

classic. you need to get over her, though, so you can keep up with the games she's playing. these emotional games will run you to hell unless you're over her and can see her as just another girl. once she's back in that spot, you've got the power back, and you can come and go as you please. thus, coming and going will making you not dependable to her and once again more attractive. yet, that cannot be your main focus because you shouldn't really care how she feels. play the game, don't lose it. have other interests, other females, she's lost her place of importance and is now just another temporary female.