Classic case of a whore with baggage (no offense bro). She is still hooked on the guy who told her to **** off for being a whore, but now hes a looser chump and cant meet other girls, so he calls her, and bang there she goes off to kiss his ass again. Youre too good for her bro, just do your thing and forget her and something better will come along, something better always comes along.

 

i know its hard to do but for the sake of your own well being you should never contact her again.

this does two things.

1. creates a better life for you

2. makes her life 10x worse than it already is - once she realizes her ways and tries crawling back to you - only for you to have moved on and shut her out.

its a win win situation. sorry about the tough luck, at least you found out now instead of after being married to her and her doing this shit.

 

I'm coming into this out of nowhere but like most guys, I've been there and done that.

Seriously, I know how much it hurts. I've had my heart broken so many times - to the point where I'd cry so much and hurt so bad that I'd literally start ripping my hair out so I'd feel a different type of pain than the one I was going through - but you know what? I'd go hang out with the guys a week or two later, and meet the hottest girls at every bar I went to. There's something about a guy on the rebound that girls go nuts for.

Forget her, hang out with the guys, and meet some new girls. I bet you a month from now you're biggest problem will be deciding which of the girls you're hanging out with you like best. There is always someone else out there, and the next girl you meet might be the girl of your dreams - you just didn't know it yet.

Oh, and when this chick tries to come back to you (it's going to happen) be like "sorry, I'm dating 4 different girls right now and I don't have time for you"

^this literally happened to me last summer - my 3 yo gf dumped me, and I started dating 4 girls at the same time within a month. She tried to come back and I had a blast telling her what I had been up to

Good luck.

 

You know, of all the advice I've got on here... somehow yours made me feel the best about the situaiton.

 

NO. This does NOT work. I was dumb enough to try. It'll work for a while, but you're only digging yourself into a very VERY deep freakin hole. Completely not worth it. Probably one of the biggest mistakes I've ever made.

 

The FBI and Dateline are on their way to your house right now.

 

 

I got some sweet tea!!!

 

to chime in from a female POV about this, I have to say "I agree".

I DO NOT suggest jumping into bed with each of the 4 (or however many) people you're dating, but dating around just to see what's out there, have some nice conversations, perhaps an interesting night (or three) and meet new people is always good imho.

When I broke up with my ex of 2.5 years (there's a long story attached to that one, but unless you want to hear it I think it's a bit beside the point) I went on dates with numerous guys.

I slept with an acquaintance of mine whom I'd hung out with and previosuly been attracted to, but aside from that one time, nothing romantic every came of it.

I never slept with any of the other guys I went on dates with, and if the subject of a relationship even POTENTIALLY came up, they knew that my answer would be "sorry, no - if you can't handle just going on dates and having fun, i'll see you later."

I took time to be myself, get settled into my new place, reclaim my goals, heal from the shitbag I dated (a douche of royal calibre) and generally just have fun.

about 4 months later I met the guy I'm currently dating, and a total of 6 months after my relationship ended, a new one began.

I really enjoyed the 4 months in between, and I do think that they were neccessary for me to get where I am now.

For the record, I don't speak with my ex, he's since moved continents (to mine, damnit - any Toronto members feel like being mean? kidding ) and that's pretty much all I know, or care to know, about his life.

I say cut off contact, start dating people, but hold off on sleeping with them. Number 1 it's just not safe to sleep with multiple people at once, and number 2 I think it just does more damage than it's worth.

 

i dont care what your point is... im gonna have a 3some with 2 girls whenever i get a chance