I've been through something similar. Ask yourself this, do you honestly think it'll work out if she comes back to you right now? Most likely not. Think about it. Even if she did get back together with you, it wouldn't be the same because she basically kicked you the curb, and out of her life already. She's setting it up so it wouldn't seem like she's a bad person. Whether she is or not, I wouldn't know. Her intentions were clear and she has hinted them to you on several occasions. She was the one who wanted to put distance between the two of you. She already had her doubts and she has already made up her mind. In a relationship, the feelings for each other should be pretty mutual. If the feelings aren't mutual, this happens.

Forget her. I got one word for you, LETITGO! (I know.. lol) Don't even bother with her. It's over and you're basically dragging it on and making it harder for yourself. Just remember all the positive things you got out of this relationship. You learn from past relationships so you can grow by gaining more expersience. You'll learn how to deal with things differently and probably be able to tell what a women's intentions are from the get go. It's hard at first, but you should just go hang out with some buddies and find more hobbies or something.

Go back home and go back to school. Do what she said, but not because she said it. Do it for yourself and LIVE life. Go back to school, get a degree, and make lots of MONEY! The best revenge is SUCCESS!

 

This means can mean two things.
1.) He is insecure in the relationship and doesnt want to do anything wrong
2.) He hasn't dated enough to understand these weird games women play


Like I said before, I will ask my wife what her problem is. 9 times out of 10 she will say nothing, which is not true. I don't apologize unless I really did something mean or bad and I don't keep asking her what is wrong with her because it could be a million things (hormonal, etc) and honestly most of the time I dont care. If she continues her mood, then I tell her that I rather not waste my free time around someone who is unpleasant and I either tell her that I am going out with our son or going out alone. This thought of being in a bad mood and being by herself usually kick starts her back into a normal mood. From a guys point of view, women just neede to tell us the first time what the fuking problem is so we can either solve it or keep away from you...Men are problem solvers, not mind readers.

 

^^

 

1. Living well is not only the best revenge, but the best way to move on.

2. Barring #1, there's always Unkie 8D's "Plan B."

Unkie 8D's "Plan B"
1. Call her best friend.
2. PIIHB.
3. Repeat. (always repeat)

 

From reading your other thread, it looks like you came out on top here. Your cheating girlfriend voluntarily moved out, negating the need for you to kick her out, which I've always found to be somewhat of a hassle. Now it's time to put yourself back together and start over. Move someplace cheap, move in with your parents, whatever. Avoid seeing her, talking to her, messaging her, going on her Myspace etc etc etc. She's given you the green light to move on with your life without her. Congrats man! Do you know how many times I've dumped a girl, and they just kept trying to come back, clawing at my door with their little kitty paws? You've got a green light, free and clear to sever all ties with that crazy girl, take it dude, take it!!!!

When she says she wants to "enjoy her life and have fun", she's basically telling you that she wants to sleep around, and is tired of doing it behind your back and feeling that slight bit of guilt that some people feel over such things (hey, she's a cheater, you mentioned it in your first thread). It's been my experience that when two people are living together and one of them all of the sudden wants to "move out and enjoy life a bit more", or "needs more space to think about things", it basically means that the relationship is over, and has been over for a while, you just may or may not have known it because as we all know, women never say what they really mean.

Welcome back to single life. Walk outside, take a deep breath of that fresh air, and rejoice at the thought of being able to wakeup next to beautiful women who are not your ex-girlfriend.

 

Sorry man. Find comfort and confidence in being single and who you are and the women won't leave you alone. Too much worry over her will not help you.

 

that works

 

Things happen for a reason man.

Mark my words:

If you don't attempt to make any contact with her she will realize and feel bad and come back. But this is where you shut her out. Don't go back.

 

Well, you guys are apparently always right.

Just found out she went out partying last night with the guy she was dating right before me... the same one she wouldn't stop talking to or hanging out with for months after we met. Oh, and the same one who is best friends with the guy she cheated on me with.

I was really missing her and feeling bad for myself... haven't been sleeping much at all this past week. Now I realize she will NEVER change, and I was a fool for thinking she did while I was with her.

 

sorry buddy, if I were you I would fuk her sister, best friend or mom.