Funny. I already read the book. There were a lot of great and truthful phrases in the book.

"Players don't want women, they fear them"
- pretty easy to tell, since a player gets their self-esteem from the approval of women.

There's so many more, I'd have to reread the book to find them all.

 

i will call her tomorrow to get over it already. she probably wanted me to call her not text her like i did... well who cares i will try it tomorrow.

 

seems like you're still pressing the matter well too much.

I say that you do not contact her again unless she tries to contact you. The texting thing pretty much threw you into "that guy" category.

 

yeaa dude. definitely texting her too much. just back off a bit. don't seem that desperate

 

How old are you man? I think how old you and this girl are makes all the difference. Personally I don't believe in all the 3 day rule and playing the game bullshit.

Be straight up, and if you are interested in the girl, let her know. Call her and ask her out on a date. Go get coffee or a quick drink somewhere during the week. Do not ask her out for dinner or for a weekend date, that's much more of a commitment for either party. If she's interested, you'll know, if not, move on to the next one.

If she can't respond to you with maturity and common courtesy, she's not worth it. If you're just trying to get laid, you may choose to put up with some bullshit, but if you are looking for a real relationship, my personal experience has told me that the straight-up approach works best. Women like a guy with enough confidence to let her know what's up.

*edit* If you're trying to get laid, the straight up approach has always worked the best for me too. Bottom line, women love a guy who has the confidence to ask for what he wants. I'm not saying be a cocky, arrogant bastard, but learn to have true confidence.

 

Haha, I read that as: "Just jack off a bit. Don't seem too desperate."

 

3 day thing is bs. The point of the 3 day rule is to tell you to relax and not play desperate.

Personally, I don't like texting in situations like this. If I'm interested I rather talk over the phone since you can sense things in her voice-- that you would otherwise miss (such as if she's actually interested in you).


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Amen to that Raj, also yes to the 3 day rule, call leave a msg and if she doesnt call you back then find her best friend and hit it like a Spartan.

 

 

Women are complex as you can tell and no matter how much you argue with them, they will always think they are right even if they know they are in the wrong