why do women keep such losers for boyfriends?
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Only "loser" women keep "loser" boyfriends, I don't see what the big mystery is. And as for....the only way to get attention from women is to treat them like shit theory...I'm glad you are seeing some success with this approach, but let me ask you what kinda of people does this draw. I highly doubt it leaves you with much respect or admiration for the girls in question because of the obvious issues they must have to fall for it. So is it fair to say that this plan of yours while it may get you some ass is in the end is worthless because any REAL woman would never be interested in the a$$hole you pretend to be. Just be yourself, be respectful, considerate, confident...but NOT cocky and women(the good one's) will respond. It's that simple.
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Not ALL women dig loser boyfriends. When I was 15, i got involved with a piece of sheit. The begining was great, until one day i disagreed with some plans he made and he smacked me so hard across my face i thought my eyeball was going to explode. From then on, the problem with leaving him was I was so scared of him. He was so violent to me if i declined seeing him, he would beat me, slap me, kick me, or even once, hit me with his car. Some women can't leave their loser boyfriends for a reason, and this is my reason:
I broke it off with him only after 4 long abusive months. Many bruises i had a hard time explaining to people, why my eye was black, my cheek, or why i was missing a chunk of hair, I just couldn't do it ANYMORE. I ended it, the next day at school ( I was 15, he was 16) I told my teacher i was afraid he may try and do something and asked if I could leave class early. He allowed me to. 5 minutes before the end of class I left, and he was saying something to me while i was walking out of the door, so i was walking backwards to hear him, I open the door, walked backwards out, he finished and I turned around and shut the door, as I turned around my recent Ex was standing there. All he said was "If I can not have you, nobody will"
He grabbed me by the throat so hard his actual fingerprint was bruised into my throat, He slammed me against a cinder block wall, and precoded to punch me so hard and so many times in the face I was unconscious for 27 minutes. I was barely breathing, so they called 911. I woke up in the back of an ambulance frightened and didn't know what happened. I had to read the police report of the 3 students who witnessed the entire event, and the other 68 who watched in awe as he tried to beat me to death. I have nasal problems, and a divit in my nose and between my eyes above my nose from him fracturing my face.
Now, He was charged with Attempted Murder, He pleaded out to Aggervated Battery. 1 year jail, and 4 years probation, an injunction he could not be within 1000 feet of me for the length of his probation. He got off probation in Sept. 04, 6 months sooner than he was suppose to, and i didn't get notification. He's been coming around me, following me, I went to get my hair done at the mall and there he was "I love you, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to"
I'm just about 21 years old, I'm a lot fckin smarter than I was at 15. So you see, a lot of girls can't leave their abusive boyfriends, the boyfriends just may kill them.
My heart goes out to any girl who has to endure this kind of abuse, and I would do ANYTHING for ANY lady on this board, regardless of location, who was involved in an abusive relationship. If she wanted to get away from him- far away, I would offer my home to them so they could get back on their feet.
I broke it off with him only after 4 long abusive months. Many bruises i had a hard time explaining to people, why my eye was black, my cheek, or why i was missing a chunk of hair, I just couldn't do it ANYMORE. I ended it, the next day at school ( I was 15, he was 16) I told my teacher i was afraid he may try and do something and asked if I could leave class early. He allowed me to. 5 minutes before the end of class I left, and he was saying something to me while i was walking out of the door, so i was walking backwards to hear him, I open the door, walked backwards out, he finished and I turned around and shut the door, as I turned around my recent Ex was standing there. All he said was "If I can not have you, nobody will"
He grabbed me by the throat so hard his actual fingerprint was bruised into my throat, He slammed me against a cinder block wall, and precoded to punch me so hard and so many times in the face I was unconscious for 27 minutes. I was barely breathing, so they called 911. I woke up in the back of an ambulance frightened and didn't know what happened. I had to read the police report of the 3 students who witnessed the entire event, and the other 68 who watched in awe as he tried to beat me to death. I have nasal problems, and a divit in my nose and between my eyes above my nose from him fracturing my face.
Now, He was charged with Attempted Murder, He pleaded out to Aggervated Battery. 1 year jail, and 4 years probation, an injunction he could not be within 1000 feet of me for the length of his probation. He got off probation in Sept. 04, 6 months sooner than he was suppose to, and i didn't get notification. He's been coming around me, following me, I went to get my hair done at the mall and there he was "I love you, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to"
I'm just about 21 years old, I'm a lot fckin smarter than I was at 15. So you see, a lot of girls can't leave their abusive boyfriends, the boyfriends just may kill them.
My heart goes out to any girl who has to endure this kind of abuse, and I would do ANYTHING for ANY lady on this board, regardless of location, who was involved in an abusive relationship. If she wanted to get away from him- far away, I would offer my home to them so they could get back on their feet.
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Originally Posted by Evilkittie,Oct 13 2004, 11:34 AM
Not ALL women dig loser boyfriends. When I was 15, i got involved with a piece of sheit. The begining was great, until one day i disagreed with some plans he made and he smacked me so hard across my face i thought my eyeball was going to explode. From then on, the problem with leaving him was I was so scared of him. He was so violent to me if i declined seeing him, he would beat me, slap me, kick me, or even once, hit me with his car. Some women can't leave their loser boyfriends for a reason, and this is my reason:
I broke it off with him only after 4 long abusive months. Many bruises i had a hard time explaining to people, why my eye was black, my cheek, or why i was missing a chunk of hair, I just couldn't do it ANYMORE. I ended it, the next day at school ( I was 15, he was 16) I told my teacher i was afraid he may try and do something and asked if I could leave class early. He allowed me to. 5 minutes before the end of class I left, and he was saying something to me while i was walking out of the door, so i was walking backwards to hear him, I open the door, walked backwards out, he finished and I turned around and shut the door, as I turned around my recent Ex was standing there. All he said was "If I can not have you, nobody will"
He grabbed me by the throat so hard his actual fingerprint was bruised into my throat, He slammed me against a cinder block wall, and precoded to punch me so hard and so many times in the face I was unconscious for 27 minutes. I was barely breathing, so they called 911. I woke up in the back of an ambulance frightened and didn't know what happened. I had to read the police report of the 3 students who witnessed the entire event, and the other 68 who watched in awe as he tried to beat me to death. I have nasal problems, and a divit in my nose and between my eyes above my nose from him fracturing my face.
Now, He was charged with Attempted Murder, He pleaded out to Aggervated Battery. 1 year jail, and 4 years probation, an injunction he could not be within 1000 feet of me for the length of his probation. He got off probation in Sept. 04, 6 months sooner than he was suppose to, and i didn't get notification. He's been coming around me, following me, I went to get my hair done at the mall and there he was "I love you, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to"
I'm just about 21 years old, I'm a lot fckin smarter than I was at 15. So you see, a lot of girls can't leave their abusive boyfriends, the boyfriends just may kill them.
My heart goes out to any girl who has to endure this kind of abuse, and I would do ANYTHING for ANY lady on this board, regardless of location, who was involved in an abusive relationship. If she wanted to get away from him- far away, I would offer my home to them so they could get back on their feet.
I broke it off with him only after 4 long abusive months. Many bruises i had a hard time explaining to people, why my eye was black, my cheek, or why i was missing a chunk of hair, I just couldn't do it ANYMORE. I ended it, the next day at school ( I was 15, he was 16) I told my teacher i was afraid he may try and do something and asked if I could leave class early. He allowed me to. 5 minutes before the end of class I left, and he was saying something to me while i was walking out of the door, so i was walking backwards to hear him, I open the door, walked backwards out, he finished and I turned around and shut the door, as I turned around my recent Ex was standing there. All he said was "If I can not have you, nobody will"
He grabbed me by the throat so hard his actual fingerprint was bruised into my throat, He slammed me against a cinder block wall, and precoded to punch me so hard and so many times in the face I was unconscious for 27 minutes. I was barely breathing, so they called 911. I woke up in the back of an ambulance frightened and didn't know what happened. I had to read the police report of the 3 students who witnessed the entire event, and the other 68 who watched in awe as he tried to beat me to death. I have nasal problems, and a divit in my nose and between my eyes above my nose from him fracturing my face.
Now, He was charged with Attempted Murder, He pleaded out to Aggervated Battery. 1 year jail, and 4 years probation, an injunction he could not be within 1000 feet of me for the length of his probation. He got off probation in Sept. 04, 6 months sooner than he was suppose to, and i didn't get notification. He's been coming around me, following me, I went to get my hair done at the mall and there he was "I love you, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to"
I'm just about 21 years old, I'm a lot fckin smarter than I was at 15. So you see, a lot of girls can't leave their abusive boyfriends, the boyfriends just may kill them.
My heart goes out to any girl who has to endure this kind of abuse, and I would do ANYTHING for ANY lady on this board, regardless of location, who was involved in an abusive relationship. If she wanted to get away from him- far away, I would offer my home to them so they could get back on their feet.
ing Prick?
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Originally Posted by gotrice02,Oct 13 2004, 10:41 AM
i'm sorry you had to go through that......No woman deserves to be abused or struck by a man. Cant you get another restraining order against this ing Prick?
ing Prick?I told the clerk this morning when I was to apply for the second time this month,
"He has been following me - he tried to kill me, I think i am owed this" and she gave me the sheet of paper and said, "sorry"
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Do you have any male friends or family that could "help out". I swear to god if I ever saw that happen to a woman..... or something like that happen to one of my sisters or someone i know, they would pay. I was biting my knuckle just reading that story.
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evilkittie - that is a horrible story!
I have no idea what the deal is with the girl across from me.... her dad won't even let this dick in the house, but the girl lives with him in a mobile home that she purchased.....
These guys need a major ass kicking... see how well they like it....
I have no idea what the deal is with the girl across from me.... her dad won't even let this dick in the house, but the girl lives with him in a mobile home that she purchased.....
These guys need a major ass kicking... see how well they like it....
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Originally Posted by Evilkittie,Oct 13 2004, 12:34 PM
Not ALL women dig loser boyfriends. When I was 15, i got involved with a piece of sheit. The begining was great, until one day i disagreed with some plans he made and he smacked me so hard across my face i thought my eyeball was going to explode. From then on, the problem with leaving him was I was so scared of him. He was so violent to me if i declined seeing him, he would beat me, slap me, kick me, or even once, hit me with his car. Some women can't leave their loser boyfriends for a reason, and this is my reason:
I broke it off with him only after 4 long abusive months. Many bruises i had a hard time explaining to people, why my eye was black, my cheek, or why i was missing a chunk of hair, I just couldn't do it ANYMORE. I ended it, the next day at school ( I was 15, he was 16) I told my teacher i was afraid he may try and do something and asked if I could leave class early. He allowed me to. 5 minutes before the end of class I left, and he was saying something to me while i was walking out of the door, so i was walking backwards to hear him, I open the door, walked backwards out, he finished and I turned around and shut the door, as I turned around my recent Ex was standing there. All he said was "If I can not have you, nobody will"
He grabbed me by the throat so hard his actual fingerprint was bruised into my throat, He slammed me against a cinder block wall, and precoded to punch me so hard and so many times in the face I was unconscious for 27 minutes. I was barely breathing, so they called 911. I woke up in the back of an ambulance frightened and didn't know what happened. I had to read the police report of the 3 students who witnessed the entire event, and the other 68 who watched in awe as he tried to beat me to death. I have nasal problems, and a divit in my nose and between my eyes above my nose from him fracturing my face.
Now, He was charged with Attempted Murder, He pleaded out to Aggervated Battery. 1 year jail, and 4 years probation, an injunction he could not be within 1000 feet of me for the length of his probation. He got off probation in Sept. 04, 6 months sooner than he was suppose to, and i didn't get notification. He's been coming around me, following me, I went to get my hair done at the mall and there he was "I love you, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to"
I'm just about 21 years old, I'm a lot fckin smarter than I was at 15. So you see, a lot of girls can't leave their abusive boyfriends, the boyfriends just may kill them.
My heart goes out to any girl who has to endure this kind of abuse, and I would do ANYTHING for ANY lady on this board, regardless of location, who was involved in an abusive relationship. If she wanted to get away from him- far away, I would offer my home to them so they could get back on their feet.
I broke it off with him only after 4 long abusive months. Many bruises i had a hard time explaining to people, why my eye was black, my cheek, or why i was missing a chunk of hair, I just couldn't do it ANYMORE. I ended it, the next day at school ( I was 15, he was 16) I told my teacher i was afraid he may try and do something and asked if I could leave class early. He allowed me to. 5 minutes before the end of class I left, and he was saying something to me while i was walking out of the door, so i was walking backwards to hear him, I open the door, walked backwards out, he finished and I turned around and shut the door, as I turned around my recent Ex was standing there. All he said was "If I can not have you, nobody will"
He grabbed me by the throat so hard his actual fingerprint was bruised into my throat, He slammed me against a cinder block wall, and precoded to punch me so hard and so many times in the face I was unconscious for 27 minutes. I was barely breathing, so they called 911. I woke up in the back of an ambulance frightened and didn't know what happened. I had to read the police report of the 3 students who witnessed the entire event, and the other 68 who watched in awe as he tried to beat me to death. I have nasal problems, and a divit in my nose and between my eyes above my nose from him fracturing my face.
Now, He was charged with Attempted Murder, He pleaded out to Aggervated Battery. 1 year jail, and 4 years probation, an injunction he could not be within 1000 feet of me for the length of his probation. He got off probation in Sept. 04, 6 months sooner than he was suppose to, and i didn't get notification. He's been coming around me, following me, I went to get my hair done at the mall and there he was "I love you, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to"
I'm just about 21 years old, I'm a lot fckin smarter than I was at 15. So you see, a lot of girls can't leave their abusive boyfriends, the boyfriends just may kill them.
My heart goes out to any girl who has to endure this kind of abuse, and I would do ANYTHING for ANY lady on this board, regardless of location, who was involved in an abusive relationship. If she wanted to get away from him- far away, I would offer my home to them so they could get back on their feet.
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Originally Posted by gotrice02,Oct 13 2004, 10:47 AM
Do you have any male friends or family that could "help out". I swear to god if I ever saw that happen to a woman..... or something like that happen to one of my sisters or someone i know, they would pay. I was biting my knuckle just reading that story.
I used to talk to battered women in shelters about my story, and people would be crying from the horror. My entire story in detail, i have written some where is like an hour long read. 4 months of abuse, everyday.
My point of the post was, not every woman goes back to that, I didn't, and I left him because of it, and I was almost killed. I live with the scars everday... poor sinus', my voice is kinda of nasally, my eyes twitch some times, and there isn't anything I did to deserve it, or provoke it. I did everything within my power to get away from it. Its shitty these chicks stay with these guys, they are fortunate they haven't been in this type of situation. I was ONLY 15, a child, when he took away so much. I was forced to accomodate him sexually, and if declined, I was beaten until I did. Things like that, these girls who CAN get away, DO piss me off, because I COULDN'T get away without being destroyed.
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Originally Posted by Scot,Oct 13 2004, 12:43 PM
evilkittie - why don't you move? I would be in a different state pretty f'ing quickly!