what it really sounds like is some bad luck on your end coinciding with that time of the month for her. Either way you (obviously) need to tread lightly for the next couple of days at least till it blows over. It doesn't really sound like it's over over... but at the same time, you might want to consider where you are in the relationship right now and consider whether or not it really is going to get much better, or up to what your ideal is. You might fix this situation, but what if it happens again and again? reallly not healthy unless you can make some wholesale changes.

 

DUDE you live with her mother. Get the fVck out of that relationship! Seriously you're thinking about marrying a girl that freaks out like that,are you going to stay with her to see how many divroces you can rack up in your lifetime. Are you looking to find out how miserable you can be in a relationship? Just bail now before you have kids.

 

yea that is the ed up part, she doesn't really understand what I'm doing for her by living with her. It is a strain on everyone in the house too.

I guess I will try to work things out, and be more considerate of her feelings. Lately I have not really cared either, we have not been physically connected to each other for awhile and that has made me turn away from her. Maybe the reason she is doing that is because I'm not in tune to her needs (and she's not in tune with mine). We went from having sex like 3 times a day to once every two months .Maybe we just need to take a vacation and find each other again. Get away from all the work bullshit.

 

Leave.


My understanding is the relationship started to go south when you moved in together. That's a real bad sign.

When she says "you can do whatever you want and that she doesn't care" that means she wants to break up but doesn't have the guts to say it. Or she wants you to break up with her so she can blame you for it ending.

I either case, save yourself the trouble and leave now.

-geekd

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Purple_sky
If the whole relationship is prolematic, let it end or end it.

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by VTEC_Junkie
the fact that she says she "doesn't care what you do" basically mean that she is not ready to completely end the relationshiop.