Hahah... I do agree with s2000qtee though. If you're looking for a decent girl and not just a one night stand, then you have to bring something to the table. Even when trying to get that one night stand, you would have to talk about more than "...look at my car and what I've done to it.." or the ever popular ::Flexes bicep, with Arnolds voice::"... Which way to da beach..."

I personally cannot stand dense and dingy women and I think it's true about how they would percieve a guy. I work out for many reasons and yeah, vanity is one of them, but you can't expect this to get you everywhere and anything.

 

Well said...on both points. Actually I believe a good sense of humour is a more valuable attribute than either of these items.

 

For me, being an out of shape slacker pothead toper, flexing my nearly nonexistent muscles and using the arnold voice works pretty well! Sense of humor works wonders

 

Yeah that's what I mean by bringing more to the table than what is first seen. I am a joker when it comes to this, but I found it difficult from the time I was 12-15 for girls to take me seriously. I think humor, intelligence, and slight modesty goes a long way. You have and excuse for not working out hard though unabageler. Is there any way to repair the damage done to your back?

 

I have a huge list of stretches I do twice a day...besides that it just takes time for the bone to grow back fully and the muscles to realize it and stop wiggin out every time I want to move my body. The worst part is sneezing...you wouldn't believe how much your back is involved in that!!!

 

Yeah my friend is only 22, but he throws his back out sneezing or kicking. If he pulls his arms back too far he cracks his chest and he's usually in pain if he doesn't take it easy.

Me on the other hand... Um, last year I fractured my hand and almost broke it when this guy started a fight, but then backed down and I hit the wall out of frustration (one of the dumbest things ever) and then I had to take anti-inflamitories and something happened and I had 3 seizures in 3 minutes. The kicker is how I went to the hospitals emergency room and they needed a urine sample and I was weak and they wouldn't help me up and just left so my left hand was numb from the I.V. and that's when I put all my weight on my right arm and popped my shoulder out. Oh and my right shoulder blade pops out farther than my left. Ughh... I hate all this.

 

LOL!! First off I like how u were the one bitchin at me for not being nice and not showin respect, can we say hypocrite?

Second, good looks and a muscular body is the first impression u make on a girl, that is the FIRST thing she sees, THEN your personality, humor, etc.. But good looks is the first physical attraction, whether u wanna believe it or not. I use to weight 160 at 6'3 comin out of high school, skinny ass freak and girls wouldnt even look at u. at my last year of college i got to what i am now 205 of muscle and the same girls that didnt want to talk are now dyin to talk. So good looks are a MAJOR MAJOR factor, and if anyone else says otherwise theyre LYING. At the end, its the ripped good lookin guy who takes the girl home (whether she be a intelligent quality girl or a dumb slut). Period.

 

you must be a girl to be such an expert on how they think

 

So what ure saying is....ure lack of self confidence in high school is now "repaired" because u drank some chalk tasting weight gainer and all the whores in ure old school are now stripping for you???








if u had ure confidence after u became the weight that you are, u would be happy with ureself and blow off all those skanks....
sorry but I just pity you, not admire you

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by R-tistik s2k
[B]Yeah my friend is only 22, but he throws his back out sneezing or kicking. If he pulls his arms back too far he cracks his chest and he's usually in pain if he doesn't take it easy.