is there anyway with wiring trickery it would be possible to raise the windows from outside the car?

thats without the key in the ignition

 

get an alarm that can control your windows

 

http://kptechnologies.com/products.php#/17

Used this site's products for a few things on my 06 Acura TSX. If you know anything about wiring it's easy.

And if you do the filter using honda it won't come up. I would contact them to make sure it'll work. Great people.

PM if you have anymore questions.

 

you need a DEI 530T window module