Can you ever trust someone
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Originally Posted by Mr.60trim,Dec 8 2008, 08:26 AM
Ok so here's the situation...
Recently (2-3 months ago) the fellas and I went out for a night in town. We were all shit face and done. One of my boys met this gorgeous girl and started talking to her. From what he told me, she's very educated and goal oriented...(I think she studying law or something)? So anyway, I'm not sure if it was the alcohol or maybe he was intimidated by this girl, but he bent the truth about his school/career portion of his life. From what he's telling us, (the rest of the fellas), he said he told her that he was going into his 1st yr in med school or something like and went to some college (which he never went to) lol. He's not a bum, however, he's just not established either. He has a good paying job, which I'm not sure but is the reason why he put a hold on finishing college. He's also a good guy. As long as I known him (approx 10yrs), he's been very loyal and a great friend.
So now he's been kicking it with this same girl and they're really feeling each other and looks like the relationship could prosper. I noticed that he's been a lot happier since meeting her and it seems like she's into him. <---(I think they had sex).
It's killing him that he's been riding this false wave, and wants to tell her, but is afraid that she will not trust him anymore or even worst lose her entirely. He called a group meeting with the fellas for sometime this week to discuss this...I'm just not sure what advice to tell him yet. Any advice would be appreciated.
Cliffs:
My boy meets a hottie
My boy lies to hottie about school/career
My boy wants to tell hottie truth (but is unsure about doing it)
What should he do?
Recently (2-3 months ago) the fellas and I went out for a night in town. We were all shit face and done. One of my boys met this gorgeous girl and started talking to her. From what he told me, she's very educated and goal oriented...(I think she studying law or something)? So anyway, I'm not sure if it was the alcohol or maybe he was intimidated by this girl, but he bent the truth about his school/career portion of his life. From what he's telling us, (the rest of the fellas), he said he told her that he was going into his 1st yr in med school or something like and went to some college (which he never went to) lol. He's not a bum, however, he's just not established either. He has a good paying job, which I'm not sure but is the reason why he put a hold on finishing college. He's also a good guy. As long as I known him (approx 10yrs), he's been very loyal and a great friend.
So now he's been kicking it with this same girl and they're really feeling each other and looks like the relationship could prosper. I noticed that he's been a lot happier since meeting her and it seems like she's into him. <---(I think they had sex).
It's killing him that he's been riding this false wave, and wants to tell her, but is afraid that she will not trust him anymore or even worst lose her entirely. He called a group meeting with the fellas for sometime this week to discuss this...I'm just not sure what advice to tell him yet. Any advice would be appreciated.
Cliffs:
My boy meets a hottie
My boy lies to hottie about school/career
My boy wants to tell hottie truth (but is unsure about doing it)
What should he do?
whats the point of lying in the first place, he'll never live it down even if they get married. i lied to my wife about smoking the reefer, she forgave me, but if i go out with my buddies she still doesn't trust me(i do have a buddy thats a pothead)
i say tell her the truth, if she dumps him, cut your losses and move on
i know for a fact a piece of poon isn't worth the sh*t he's going through right now
tell him to fess up
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Originally Posted by s2000raj,Dec 9 2008, 05:55 PM
Yeah, you need to tell her about your 'alternative lifestyle.'
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Originally Posted by Yellow_S,Dec 10 2008, 05:27 PM
Well, I told her that I had a 12" one, but when she found out it was only 1/4 of that, she looked disappointed but luckily, pitiful at the same time. She married me out of pity, just to save me the embarrassment of showing it to other girls.
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