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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 03:43 AM
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This thread is hilarious. The OP tries to stay ontopic............while the rest of us internet leg humpers try to hit on C Unit.

Btw, C unit - Scot doesn't really WANT you. He just wants you to rent one of his houses.
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 05:13 AM
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Originally Posted by MDXLuvr,Sep 21 2006, 03:43 AM
This thread is hilarious. The OP tries to stay ontopic............while the rest of us internet leg humpers try to hit on C Unit.

Btw, C unit - Scot doesn't really WANT you. He just wants you to rent one of his houses.
You guys are way too funny... lol.

So... Ummmm... C-Unit... when are you coming over here to Jersey?...
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 06:27 AM
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Originally Posted by rubyrashel,Sep 20 2006, 04:52 PM
another thing though is that if she is seeing someone, psychologically they don't feel as bad/guilty if they arent doing anything in the bed with you. She probably doesnt realize that her not wanting sex with you is a subconscious act to alleviate her own guilt.
little confused on what you meant here.
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 06:38 AM
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Originally Posted by gosixers215,Sep 20 2006, 08:50 PM
Nice. Your wife would say otherwise.

Scot, I'm just fvcking with you of ocurse
that's not funny..... my feelings are hurt.... i will start a thread about it.....
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 06:44 AM
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Originally Posted by 8kGoodENuff,Sep 21 2006, 09:27 AM
little confused on what you meant here.
she's saying that if your girlfriend is cheating on you, the fact that she's not sleeping with you anymore might make her feel "not guilty" about cheating on you with someone else. its a f**ked way of thinking but its a possibility.
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 07:01 AM
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that's a bit strange considering she use to do it so much early on in the relationship and now that it's exclusive she has cut down, it's usually the opposite. but it sounds like you reli like this girl and the last thing u want to do is leave her yet ur sexually frustrated and have your needs. I've been their. my last gf was a virgin and she made me wait nearly 2 years before doing the deed and u know what, i waited, and hell yes i was sexually frustrated beyond belief, i use to get soo moody and annoyed with her but i waited. i love that girl and knew that it's nearly impossible to find some1 like her cuz i had looked for 20 years. and when it happened with her and felt better than anytime i ever had and it still does cuz i love her more than i ever cared for anyone else and it still feels like the first time everytime, i still get excited when i see her name on my caller id after 4 years of being 2gether next week.
before her i was with some1 who was completely diff, we f'd within 2 weeks and were together for a year, 3-5x a day, backseat, park, movies, parking garage, name it everywhere and as fun as it was i could never climax with her even after 1 or 2 hours.
she was equally hot but i guess it's cuz i didn't love her as much.

my point is, if she has an amzing personality and is reli into u, has proved herself and has made sacrifices for u, than stick it out and see how much she appereciates it. u might get plenty of more special treats than u didn't even imagine.
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 07:06 AM
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Originally Posted by kntrider,Sep 21 2006, 10:01 AM
that's a bit strange considering she use to do it so much early on in the relationship and now that it's exclusive she has cut down, it's usually the opposite. but it sounds like you reli like this girl and the last thing u want to do is leave her yet ur sexually frustrated and have your needs. I've been their. my last gf was a virgin and she made me wait nearly 2 years before doing the deed and u know what, i waited, and hell yes i was sexually frustrated beyond belief, i use to get soo moody and annoyed with her but i waited. i love that girl and knew that it's nearly impossible to find some1 like her cuz i had looked for 20 years. and when it happened with her and felt better than anytime i ever had and it still does cuz i love her more than i ever cared for anyone else and it still feels like the first time everytime, i still get excited when i see her name on my caller id after 4 years of being 2gether next week.
before her i was with some1 who was completely diff, we f'd within 2 weeks and were together for a year, 3-5x a day, backseat, park, movies, parking garage, name it everywhere and as fun as it was i could never climax with her even after 1 or 2 hours.
she was equally hot but i guess it's cuz i didn't love her as much.

my point is, if she has an amzing personality and is reli into u, has proved herself and has made sacrifices for u, than stick it out and see how much she appereciates it. u might get plenty of more special treats than u didn't even imagine.
Gaaayy...

Anyone here ever seen Shaun of the Dead...??
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 08:07 AM
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Originally Posted by kntrider,Sep 21 2006, 07:01 AM
that's a bit strange considering she use to do it so much early on in the relationship and now that it's exclusive she has cut down, it's usually the opposite. but it sounds like you reli like this girl and the last thing u want to do is leave her yet ur sexually frustrated and have your needs. I've been their. my last gf was a virgin and she made me wait nearly 2 years before doing the deed and u know what, i waited, and hell yes i was sexually frustrated beyond belief, i use to get soo moody and annoyed with her but i waited. i love that girl and knew that it's nearly impossible to find some1 like her cuz i had looked for 20 years. and when it happened with her and felt better than anytime i ever had and it still does cuz i love her more than i ever cared for anyone else and it still feels like the first time everytime, i still get excited when i see her name on my caller id after 4 years of being 2gether next week.
yea but according to the OP this girl isn't exactly the Virgin Mary.... so you waiting for sex from your virgin girlfriend is one thing, but him waiting around for sex from Hussy McSlutterson is quite another.

and about you guys saying that she's probably cheating and holding back sex as a ****ed up way of justifying the cheating.... it's actually proven that cheaters will have sex with their original partner MORE when they're cheating. it's weird, but i've read this a few different places and my friends have told me from experience that this is what happens. but everyone is different i guess. like my friend and his skeeze that wouldn't have sex with him cause she was boning someone on the side.
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 09:51 AM
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Spoken like a true lady.

Originally Posted by C_Unit,Sep 21 2006, 11:07 AM
like my friend and his skeeze that wouldn't have sex with him cause she was boning someone on the side.
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted by C_Unit,Sep 21 2006, 11:07 AM

and about you guys saying that she's probably cheating and holding back sex as a ****ed up way of justifying the cheating.... it's actually proven that cheaters will have sex with their original partner MORE when they're cheating. it's weird, but i've read this a few different places and my friends have told me from experience that this is what happens. but everyone is different i guess. like my friend and his skeeze that wouldn't have sex with him cause she was boning someone on the side.
yes but it goes both ways, they either don't have sex with their significant other because they're seeing someone on the side, or they have sex more to make the other person not notice anything or again, alleviate guilt... like there you did your deed.
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