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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted by rubyrashel,Sep 21 2006, 01:42 PM
yes but it goes both ways, they either don't have sex with their significant other because they're seeing someone on the side, or they have sex more to make the other person not notice anything or again, alleviate guilt... like there you did your deed.


so basically, i'd wait a little longer - and if nothing changes, then its your call. but that would be really frustrating for me.
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 11:32 AM
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Let her catch you beating off, then when she asks why, drop that knowledge on her. See if she changes her ways then.

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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 11:38 AM
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[QUOTE=gosixers215,Sep 21 2006, 02:32 PM]Let her catch you beating off, then when she asks why, drop that knowledge on her.
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 11:39 AM
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 11:41 AM
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted by Scot,Sep 21 2006, 03:41 PM
I don't know why, but that picture of Pee Wee Herman almost made me have lose it in the middle of my training class I can just imagine him doing that little laugh HAHAHAHAHAHA

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I would agree that you should give it a little time just to see how things pan out. Perhaps instead of just flat out asking to bone, you could do something that would normally leading to sex. For instance maybe offer to give her a massage or something, this ALWAYS worked on my ex whenever she wasn't in the mood. The hot-tub thing might not be a bad idea either. Don't push the issue, just let it happen. It could very well be stress, I know when I'm stressed out I go from Tossing off everyday to maybe every other day lol. Yes it has been a VERY dry season for me the past month or two so SUE me hahahaha
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 04:28 PM
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Originally Posted by gosixers215,Sep 21 2006, 02:32 PM
Let her catch you beating off, then when she asks why, drop that knowledge on her. See if she changes her ways then.

I think if i walked in, I'd just feel guilty. For not doing my part as a girlfriend.
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 05:00 PM
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Originally Posted by rubyrashel,Sep 21 2006, 08:28 PM
I think if i walked in, I'd just feel guilty. For not doing my part as a girlfriend.
Exactly my point. Make her wonder why you're doing it and then hit her with the science that you don't like the fact that you guys aren't banging like you used to.
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 05:15 PM
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Originally Posted by gosixers215,Sep 21 2006, 02:32 PM
Let her catch you beating off, then when she asks why, drop that knowledge on her. See if she changes her ways then.



i think that just made my sig
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Old Sep 21, 2006 | 06:22 PM
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just hook her up with my ex and move on, they sound perfect for each other
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