it may has to do with stress or other factors.
when someone is stressed out due to work, money, etc, they can loose their desires.

 

Cause I really like the girl... awesome personality... very caring, which is awesome and the sex life was great. She wanted a relationship cause she kept annoying me about it and she told me that it would be easier for her cause she'll know that I won't just leave her you know. Being official gives people more a sense of security that the other person won't hook up with anyone else. So... I thought it was worth a shot and it still is, but if this isn't corrected then I really don't know where this is going to go.

 

^ agreed, the money you'll spend on rent nowadays can easily be put towards a mortgage payment instead, and as for 8k, take her mind off of her self-consciousness, obviously compliments are going nowhere if you are always tossing them out there. If you get her thinking about ANYTHING else, you're on the right track. Women, in general, are very self-conscious and attention seeking. Take her out someplace nice, and if ya make it back to your place, try turning the light off and see if she'll loosen up. Also, did something happen in her family life, school life, or work life? For someone to change that drastically, something's up, or shes bipolar.

 

She is having a bit of money problems but it's not like bad bad and she's not in debt. She doesn't really complain about it either... so I don't see that as being a problem. It's more of her thinking that she doesn't look as good as she used to when we first started hooking up.

 

I can see how you're right.

 

ill tell you what this is messed up...i dated my last gf for 5 years and never once did sex get old or did either of us not feel attractive enough to have sex...i agree with cunit...it was once a day if not more...it was long distance for a little part of the 5 years and once we saw eachother did it as much as we could anywhere we could...there has to be an underlying issue...but dude if she doesnt feel attractive go out of your way to make her feel attractive...she probably still feels that you are only in it for the sex bcs you keep pressuring her to do it...

 

Don't freak out! Don't get defensive! I'm not saying its true or not I have no idea but make sure.

Some women dont actually achieve the big O easily. Some never do! Make sure she really is. Make sure you're taking care of business!

However that being said, its normal to have a slow down. When that happens I tend to withdraw as well. If I'm not pushing for it, after a while, she grabs hold.

 

I feel ya dude... I'll seriously try not to bring it up anymore or even hint at it. It's gonna be rough, but I'll give it a shot.

 

believe me i definately know how hard it is

 

C Unit - I luv you.


I know I know their are 100's other S2000 owners who love you. But can you put me on your "list" of potential future dates.

p.s. can you please go out with me before you go out with that scumbag Scot.

P.s.s - to the O.P - DUMP THE BIATCH