Uhhhh....




My other friends just invited me to the movies tomorrow... should I invite her? Or should I just wait until this weekend???

 

Depends... are you trying to hook up with your friends or the girl? lmao... come on man... if you want to get to know the girl.. take her out alone!

 

Good luck my man Colin I know how you feel. :sigh: Haha =p if she says yes, and if mom goes over to the redlands and gives you a ride in her vmom, then you can take her with you. the point is that she must sit on your lap or she can't go for tha ride. say, "oh darn, i thought this car would have more than two seats!!!"

 

Well, that excuse wouldn't work



She knows I am obsessed with this car!

 

but yeah colin, don't take it TOO seriously if she isn't the way you THOUGHT she was or if she says no cause personally, i don't think it's a really big deal. just be confident and do your best. cause all the girls i thought i liked and thought were the "perfect" girls, the rumors spread and they all showed me their really really bad side, they started talking and everything.

 

Ouch. Thanks George :stillnervous:

 

good luck

 

Since you are apprehensive, don't put yourself on the line. Play it cool, and don't spill your guts about how you feel, at least not right away. Ask her out as a friend, and take her out alone, away from your other friends. Just get to know her better, and then you will find out if she has feelings for you. If she wants to go out with you again casually, then you might be able to work it into something serious. Don't pressure yourself about trying to make her your girlfriend, just try to spend time with her, and see how things work out. The less pressure you put on yourself, the easier it will be!

Good luck!!

-Pete

 

Hey there Hoonda, how old are you?? Wish I was your age again Ok, Listen. You never know untill you try right? What have you to loose?? Keep the friendship, that is always first and foremost. Just ask her, without pressure, you may be relieved to hear her answer. Even if it is one you may not like, at least you know and you can move on.

Yes, invite her to the movies, and then go somewhere and discuss it. Then you can see her views, dislikes, likes, and see how you feel about something you did together, whether it was just a movie for the first time or not. The guys advice here is all pretty good, I think you will do fine. Remember, no pressure, just be your natural self that I am sure she likes already.
Good luck!

 

Thanks April I'm 14 and I'll be 15 next month

Well, the problem is, we already know just about everthing about each other!