Cut her off dog, I know you love her and stuff and I know it is hard. But if you do not put your foot down now you will not be happy or respect yourself. As long as you let this go on she will continue to disrespect and hurt you. You do not need that crap and it is her loss. Maybe she will realize what a great guy you are once you have nothing to do with her anymore and she loses you. If you stay, you are the weak one and she will take advantage of you. Hope I helped.

Ryan

 

OK, so she is seeing someone, and you aren't. So what? It's bad enough that you got your heart broken by a cheater, don't go as far as letting her dictate the terms of your happiness as well! Let her go wreck someone else's life. Get on with yours on YOUR OWN terms.

 

It's always though bro. I was dumped on once in my life. I was a lesson you don't forget. I know it's hard, however it's all up hill from now. Since then I've dated my fair share and it's only a distant memory.

Sam

 

party like "Frank the Tank" (Will Ferrell) in Old School...

 

text her back and say fvck off! dont pick up any of her phone calls, and distance yourself 100 percent. YOU HAVE TO cut of ALL ties with her. It will be the fastest way to get over her, but like everyone said, time will only heal. You dont have to jump the gun and see someone else. Best thing to do is keep from dating someone right away and give yourself a couple of months of seeing all the rights and wrongs in the relationship and learning from them. OK, shes dating someone else, who gives a f*ck, just feel sorry for the poor soul that shes about to cheat on also. Once a cheater always a cheater (unless they really do a backflip) which i dont see any reason this girl would care on doing. Believe me, in a couple of months when your out with you buddies flirting with girls and having fun, you will be soo glad that you are not attatched anymore and that what your doing is okay. Your young, you drive a badass car, it wont take long for a chic to go running to you. All I can say is you want 0 contact with the bitch. Not only will it drive her crazy that she is being rejected by you, but this will make you feel better that you are making her go through more pain then you will be feeling I am a girl and I know the inside scoop, so trust my advice Oh, and I have been in the exact same situation as you, same ages and everything (actually its kind of eerie). But good luck and welcome to the boards!
Rashel

 

If it's any consolation to you...

I caught my first girlfriend...




I caught my second girlfriend...

 

man, that is gross... don't even talk to her... unless maybe you can get her to buy stuff for your S! just kidding.

 

Get into a new hobby to distract you from thinking about her. Find a new girl. In general, it's already been said but it's so true. It's painfull but you have to go through it, if there is no trust then there is no relationship. Move on, it's that simple, and difficult at the same time. Good luck.

 

That is so true....you may think it'll last...but it usually doesnt, no matter how hard you try.

and then you realise that you were being dumb and go out and get some ass!

woooooooooooo

 

I dunno i think my girlfriends parents were dating when they were 16 and 17 and they are still together. Hopefully it is the same way with her because she is absolutely perfect and she knows what VTEC is.