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G/f of 4 yrs,cheated..help needed

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Old Feb 9, 2004 | 06:50 PM
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Don't be such a cry baby!



www.lavalife.com



I'm serious, too! The best thing to do when you lose an S2000, is to buy a Supra. Or something like that. Get it?



Look forward! Now you get to experience that NEW pussy! You're young, you have alot of dating to go through ahead of you. Imagine if you had already married her, you'd already be in the 60% of people who get divorced!



Cheer up man, women are a dime a dozen.
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Old Feb 9, 2004 | 06:51 PM
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You guys are right...im just stupid and i think...no other girl will want me when i had 2 g/f before her and all of them were hott. F*** her..my S2000 is more attractive..and doesnt bitch and stress me like that damn girl. BTW..I am near chicago.....25min drive. I cant wait till summer time for now im stuck driving my mom's 2003 Camry...which isnt too bad because its a V6
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Old Feb 9, 2004 | 06:53 PM
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Every time you think of going back remember..... *Khhhwaaaaatussssshhhhh*
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Old Feb 9, 2004 | 07:29 PM
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Everyone has said it...no trust = no relationship.

You said it your self...if she doesn't pick up, it's b/c she's with the other guy.

Do you want to wander what she's up to and who she's with all the time. You're gonna end up worrying your head off for a girl who doesn't really love you, b/c if she did, she wouldn't have cheated on you.

I've been there, and every relationship I've been in since, I've been very jealous and worried. MOVE ON and CUT ALL TIES.
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Old Feb 9, 2004 | 08:44 PM
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exzeltus pretty much summed it up. now time to hook it up with all those nudies you took while you were with her. not the ones of you.
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Old Feb 9, 2004 | 11:20 PM
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seize all communication with her ASAP, you'll only end up hurting yourself more if you're still attached.
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Old Feb 9, 2004 | 11:28 PM
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as much as it really really sucks and hurts, you will have to just cut the ties 100% or your going to give yourself a huge mind fuxx...eventually time will help you with this and i say you need at least a year if not more

on the flip side...you won't be able to understand it now, but you are both still very young and sometimes people grow apart...since you have been with her since she was 15, you will most likely find that she will need to explore life and the party scene, new people and need to get it out of her system...good thing that it happened now and not later and without any kids

i would say just keep busy, keep talking to lots of friends...start dating too
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Old Feb 9, 2004 | 11:33 PM
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get pissed off and party like you've never partied before!
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Old Feb 9, 2004 | 11:44 PM
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trust is a hard thing to rebuild, especially after 4 years down the tubes. But don't despair, the times you had were genuine, she's just a stupid adolescent girl. irrational and hormonal, i'm sure you know that...you just controlled it better. I think you have a few steps to go through, first you'll feel absolute emptiness, then you'll feel a lack of self worth and start to doubt yourself. please, don't let yourself succumb to that. give yourself the credit you deserve, but don't make the mistake of taking her back.

I did that, and she ended up cheating on me again, even worse than before. I should not have trusted her with so much, especially after having it broken so badly. Just wait it out. shit's not going to heal overnight, or with drinking it away. just go on living, find new people, but don't rebound. No girl wants to be a rebound fling, why should you inflict your hurt onto someone else? it will fade, just give it time and go through the motions...

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Old Feb 10, 2004 | 10:32 AM
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Thank You

She called me today but i didnt pick up. The only thing that kills me is that she is seeing someone else and im not. She txt me saying how much she loves me ,cares about me, how i complete her and she would even die for me but for right now we wouldnt workout ...i just feel like she wants me around to fall back on..but this will not happen
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