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I Need Help With My Girlfriend...Weird Relationship

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Old Feb 23, 2004 | 06:41 PM
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by dkhl
i wouldn't jump the gun and break up with her.
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Old Feb 23, 2004 | 08:07 PM
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It sounds like youi need to find a hobby or something to occupy your time. You're not just in love with your girlfriend, you're obsessed.
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Old Feb 23, 2004 | 08:22 PM
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Remember what I told you bro......hit me up if you wanna rap...
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Old Feb 23, 2004 | 09:04 PM
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Heard this story a thousand times b4!!
I'll tell you how it is, and straight to the point:

You should stop being so good to her. The more you tell her you love her, the more she'll get irritated and feel suffocated. The more you ask her questions, the more she won't care why you're asking these questions. People start to take each other for granted over time. They get so used to your "love" that they just turn thank-less. At least people like that don't seem to appreciate such a thing as love. Love to people like that, is something they take when they want to, and deny when they want to as well.
To me, love is timeless...and only gets stronger. But everyone around me all seem to have these girls that you just explained. Sigh....

You deserve better. When you have to start chasing someone around to get through to them, or when they start to play mind games with you and take you through an emotional roller coaster....that's when you just say...bah bye!

She'll only get worse, not better over time.....

Just a chick with lots of guy friends with the same sad unfair love story.
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Old Feb 23, 2004 | 09:11 PM
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She's tired of you but doesn't want to be the one to end the relationship, she wants to put it on you so she can make you be the bad person. My ex-wife did the same $#!@. Getting away from her was the best thing I ever did in my life. I found myself spending my nights happy and having fun and not worrying about the relationship, fights, being depressed, etc. Take some time apart, if it is meant to be then it will happen, if not, well, there are a lot of hotties out there that may be looking for someone just like you.
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Old Feb 23, 2004 | 09:15 PM
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what you should do is make yourself unavailable if you want to hang on to her. just stop showing her soo much attention, and in a way start makin her jelous, if she shows no sign after that, then its over.
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Old Feb 23, 2004 | 09:22 PM
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Okay .. do not make yourself available at her disposal. Stop calling her. If she calls you then don't even pick up the phone. Ignore her for the time being.

Eventually you should take her out and try to discuss things at dinner.
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Old Feb 23, 2004 | 10:05 PM
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how long has this been going on? Don't worry about it so much. Maybe this is just a periodical thing for her. good luck
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Old Feb 23, 2004 | 11:19 PM
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Originally posted by sickestS2k00
i need help!



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Old Feb 23, 2004 | 11:22 PM
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What is it with you Yanks that you love emoting in public so much???

Show a bit of stiff upper lip squire!
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