I Need Help With My Girlfriend...Weird Relationship
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From: Chandler, AZ
Originally posted by Welshman
What is it with you Yanks that you love emoting in public so much???
Show a bit of stiff upper lip squire!
What is it with you Yanks that you love emoting in public so much???
Show a bit of stiff upper lip squire!
Can someone help me with this translation? I tried AltaVista but there is no English to English conversion...
Seriously, though dude (original dude, not the British dude) you need to let her know how you feel, for good or bad. If she cares the same way you do about her, she'll understand and things will get better. If it's just too much and she's feeling smothered, she'll let you know. If she lays into you for telling her how you feel, it's time to move on anyway.
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From: City Of London / Knebworth
Originally posted by s2k_zonie
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Can someone help me with this translation?
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Can someone help me with this translation?
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From: It's a secret!
Originally posted by rallykid
She's tired of you but doesn't want to be the one to end the relationship, she wants to put it on you so she can make you be the bad person.
She's tired of you but doesn't want to be the one to end the relationship, she wants to put it on you so she can make you be the bad person.
100%! I had a boyfriend in high school who I was crazy about. He did the same thing where he'd act weird, rarely call, and when I called, he'd act all distant. When I asked what was wrong, he said nothing. When I asked if he wanted to break up, he said no. He wanted me to be the one to do it so he wasn't the bad guy. So I gave him what he wanted.
Yeah, it sucks, but if she's pulling this sh!t, she's not the one.
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From: Milford
Gee..maybe u oughta go to www.cheaters.com and become a TV personality..Seriously, you've got major problems and you need to back away and re-evaluate.
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From: Mission Viejo
Questions like "Are you going to break up with me" are a BIG no no! From now on questions like that are "OFF LIMITS" to you.
I dont think that we have enough information to say if your relationship is on the rocks or if it is just a mood swing. Either way you should be distancing yourself from this girl mentally. This way it will make a possible break up that much easier... then again it never is.
I dont think that we have enough information to say if your relationship is on the rocks or if it is just a mood swing. Either way you should be distancing yourself from this girl mentally. This way it will make a possible break up that much easier... then again it never is.
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From: limerick
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all you ever needed to know about women and dating. Surf though these articles! They have some fantastic stuff in them. You'll feel slimmy about it but you'll also know it's all true
Your girl might just be going though a bad time back way off don't call her anymore wait for her to call you. Either way she needs space or is ready to break up. If you back off you'll be better for it.
all you ever needed to know about women and dating. Surf though these articles! They have some fantastic stuff in them. You'll feel slimmy about it but you'll also know it's all true
Your girl might just be going though a bad time back way off don't call her anymore wait for her to call you. Either way she needs space or is ready to break up. If you back off you'll be better for it.
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From: O.C.
I'm sorry, I'm just going to come right out and say it...
You're pathetic. If I were a girl and you were exactly like you say you are, I'd drop you right then and there. Women like a challenge. You're handing everything to her on a silver platter--namely your head!
What do you have to feel insecure about? BE A MAN! Confidence is a learned behavior, it's not taught. And oh, consequently, women are drawn to CONFIDENT men! Who would have thought!
I have a feeling that she's going to end the relationship. She's clearly showing you signs of it. You sound young, so this is actually good for you because it will teach you certain things about yourself. Even though you'll feel like sH*t for awhile.
In hindsight, you'll be thankful your heart got broken. It'll make you stronger AND MORE CONFIDENT next time around. Think of it as a character-building event.
Remember what I said, confidence is a learned behavior. LEARN FROM THIS.
You're pathetic. If I were a girl and you were exactly like you say you are, I'd drop you right then and there. Women like a challenge. You're handing everything to her on a silver platter--namely your head!
What do you have to feel insecure about? BE A MAN! Confidence is a learned behavior, it's not taught. And oh, consequently, women are drawn to CONFIDENT men! Who would have thought!
I have a feeling that she's going to end the relationship. She's clearly showing you signs of it. You sound young, so this is actually good for you because it will teach you certain things about yourself. Even though you'll feel like sH*t for awhile.
In hindsight, you'll be thankful your heart got broken. It'll make you stronger AND MORE CONFIDENT next time around. Think of it as a character-building event.
Remember what I said, confidence is a learned behavior. LEARN FROM THIS.
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From: Owings Mills, MD
There is a quite a bit of good advice in this thread actually. I agree with a bunch of different points.
DKHL says you should try mixing things up a bit. I agree.
Hondo says she found someone else. I don't necessarily agree with this, but her actions tell me that she's probably looking for something different in her life.
rally kid says it the best "She's tired of you but doesn't want to be the one to end the relationship, she wants to put it on you so she can make you be the bad person."
I don't think she's necessarily tired of YOU, she's probably more tired of the same thing day in and day out. So take DKHL's advice.
I also think that after 4 years, you should be able to talk about ANYTHING. Trust me, I was going through something similar with a girl of 5 years. Although I'm the one showing little interest. Doesn't mean I don't love her, but I don't like her attitude.. Don't talk about breaking up, but maybe you should talk about a future... only if you're ready to take that next step. After 4 years, I think it's time to $hit or get off the pot. Don't forget, you're both barely 21. Which is really too young to have experienced anything yet. When people turn 21 (IMO) they get antsy with getting older and like to change up their life a little. Happened to me, happened to two of my ex's, it just happens.
my $.02
DKHL says you should try mixing things up a bit. I agree.
Hondo says she found someone else. I don't necessarily agree with this, but her actions tell me that she's probably looking for something different in her life.
rally kid says it the best "She's tired of you but doesn't want to be the one to end the relationship, she wants to put it on you so she can make you be the bad person."
I don't think she's necessarily tired of YOU, she's probably more tired of the same thing day in and day out. So take DKHL's advice.
I also think that after 4 years, you should be able to talk about ANYTHING. Trust me, I was going through something similar with a girl of 5 years. Although I'm the one showing little interest. Doesn't mean I don't love her, but I don't like her attitude.. Don't talk about breaking up, but maybe you should talk about a future... only if you're ready to take that next step. After 4 years, I think it's time to $hit or get off the pot. Don't forget, you're both barely 21. Which is really too young to have experienced anything yet. When people turn 21 (IMO) they get antsy with getting older and like to change up their life a little. Happened to me, happened to two of my ex's, it just happens.
my $.02