haha, i saw the lava site the other day and actually saw someone i know on there. but anyways, this has been goin on for quite some time where sometimes i feel like she really loves me, and other times where she just had an attitude. im goin to florida next month with my boys so hopefully that will clear my mind of her. I need a vacation myself. lol, its also funny cuz Anarky said go to cheaters.com and be a TV personality. That is what i wanna be and what im goin to school for, but thats besides the point. but im still not gonna do anything till i have a talk with her. she told me to call her at work yesterday but i didnt cuz i didnt know how she was gonna act. so right now, im just gonna wait to see if she calls me. if she doesnt call me soon, ill assume she wants no part of me and its pretty much goin down the drain. thanks for ur guys help. ill keep u posted.

 

good luck bro

 

Women are so easily replaced.



Find another.

 

Thankfully, so are men.

 

RUN! NOW! Even if you patch things up for the present this women will make you suffer for the rest of your miserable, and she will see to that, life. Find yourself a women who wants to be your partner.

 

u do bring up a good point Winocowboy. I was thinking ok, so what if we make things good for now, but then she'll just end up doin it again to me. also, i cant picture myself being married to her. if things are like this now, she'll make me nuts. also, her mom doesnt approve of me so if we did get married, shes prolly gonna object to it and she always listens to her mom too. man, i hate this. love sux. but she hasnt called and i havent been waiting for her either. ive had my phone off all day cuz i dont wanna hear from her.

 

I have found that you have to give her some space. And when she has this "space" she will then realize how much she needs and you eventually it will all stop.

 

You do make a good point. I mean i feel sorry for her that she works 60 hours a week and just goes straight home and goes to bed. she does have a busy life. But i guess i dont give her the space she needs by askin her so many questions that will prolly make her run. on the other hand, how much space does she need. she lives an hour away from me so its not like i see her everyday. i havent seen her for about 2 weeks because i have school and work and she just works. not to mention i wont have my car for awhile which makes it even worse cuz i cant see her now. i even bought her a cell phone but does she put it to good use? no! i dont even get any phone calls from her. also, this is very complex situation. i cant let her mom know we still sneak out to see one another but mom doesnt give her any freedom. she treats her like shes still 12. she always has to tell her mom shes goin out, where she goin, with who, and she has to be back a certain time. this really sux. every decision her daughter makes or if her daughter wants to do somethin, shes gotta ask mommy! thats why im so frustrated with all this! she needs to grow up and become an independant woman and start makin her own choices. man the shit that i have been thru. worryin about her mom not finding out that we hung out one day cuz then she'll be in deep trouble, its so much stress. But i cant calm myself down cuz i need to have a talk with her which i still havent done yet. if she doesnt wanna talk to me anymore, she should stop playin games and just tell me straight up so i can painfully move on.

 

yeah im also going through something similar. we were sitting in the cafeteria and another girl i have known for a long time was walking by and i flung my head out into the aisle and blocked the aisle with my head and she laughed and walked around me. Then my girlfriend who saw it got all pissed off at me saying that I was "flirting" with her. It really pissed me off that she would get mad when i do something like that, especially to a close friend. and what really pisses me off is she "flirts" with other guys and it doesnt really bother me because I trust her. I dont know what to think of it or even what to say to her.......

 

thats what pisses her off. my questioning. im very insecure so i always ask her questions like " are u gonna break up with me?" "are u mad at me?" "do u still wanna talk to me?" i guess i do it because i just wanna test her to see if she cares about me. ofcourse she does say no to all those questions i ask her, but i just wanna make sure im not wasting my time, or her time so thats why i ask her questions. I hope she questions me or says things to me like "i miss you" "i love you" because that ur right, i will know things are fine and it was just in my head. Its also weird because she THINKS everything is fine when in reality she doesnt even know how i feel.

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Thats crazy, thats exactly precisely in every way how i work things. i know exactly how you feel man.