throw her on the corner!

 

Listen to me the girl loves you.... she is just probably confused and sometimes or should i say most of the times some women really do gete in those types of moods.
She reminds me of myslef... I think you should give her more attention then you usually do and really express to her how you feel not with WORDS but with ACTIONS........ Do you ever think that maybe she is afraid to be with you and she is trying to push you away because she might want to settle down...? Think about it.. you have been with her for 4 yrs right? She's either thinking of taking it to the next level but she might be afraid that you are not ready for it.
Good Luck

 

um yea his actions werent working with her in the first place, sorry to say this but girls just play stupid little games, you have to game them to get what you want. she's acting all prissy ignoring you and shit, well what is she used to? you running to her right? obviously it didnt work before why would it work now? show her that she cant treat you that way and expect you to act like a lost feking puppy! so what should you do, the same thing, she will realize it, after a few days like you said she did, took like five days before it hit her, "wait a min, he hasnt called" just my opinion of course, and yes im a girl and its weird to bash girls being a girl, but hey, your either gaming, or gettin gamed.
rashel

 

Yeah, maybe this kinda sounds insanely familiar, don't you think?

 

Yeah i havent been able to get on in a while because my computer has been being gay. but me and my gtirlfriend broke up and i am sad about it. it really hurts that she would do that. i feel like i was led on all this time and now i really dont have anyone. i just hope it goes as easy as possible for me. shes claims that she "needs a break" because she hasnt been happy lately. What do you guys think I should do when she wants me back?

 

I think for now, you should just give her space. I dont necessarily think there's someone else in your girlfriend's life, and perhaps she's been overwhelmed by other things in her life, and really does need some space. You said her mother doesn't approve of her going out with you, maybe that could be a problem, maybe she's feeling tired of having to secretly going out with you and just frustrated about not being able to spend time with her boyfriend (during you two's spare time) whenever she wants. You can't do much about this and she would have to sort it out in her head herself.

It took 1 day for my girlfriend to get back with me, and it might take more than a few days for you. But don't lose hopes. I have a feelilng she'll go back to you, and when she does, there's no need to play games with her and act all snobby, because if she does decide to get back together with you, it will be after she thinks everything over and realizes you're what she really wants, so just treat her right and care about her like you would.

In the meantime, it wouldn't hurt to send her some flowers occasinally (maybe to her work place?), write her a card and only write simple things (few lines, dont write too much) that will make her feel good. Send her something (CD/DVD with music or videos that you make on your own) that'll make her remember how you two got together, or something meaningful to both of you. Make her think of you without being able to see you or talk to you.

 

Yeah I think you are right. today i went for a run down 800 and 26 and she called me when i wasin woodsfield and we talked and she said that she would be back with me in like a week. yeah ill take her back and be nice to her about it. She said that she thought about me all day which i guess could be a good sign and she also said that she didnt feel right when she was not with me. i really cleared my mind today from everything which was what I needed to we took a drive to the family farm on the scenic route which i was pretty happy about. when you said video i thought about sending her a video that i have of my and my friend doing doughtnuts in a parking lot but that wouldnt make it better, wouldnt you agree. Yeah but i think things will work out this time. well im gonna go watch Mischeif Invade with my dad.