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Old Aug 25, 2010 | 08:21 AM
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Originally Posted by vector01_hungry,Aug 25 2010, 03:11 AM
i'm sure you've all heard it before, but i'll ask again anyway:

why would anyone who's had their heart broken after being in a LONG term relationship and marriage ever trust another woman?
because everyone is different. just becuase one woman is "bad" doesn't mean all are.

just like this song[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jHPOzQzk9Qo [/media]
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Old Aug 25, 2010 | 08:32 AM
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Originally Posted by thebig33tuna,Aug 25 2010, 06:27 AM
In this thread
-guys who are bitter about past relationships will bitch about them
-guys who want to act like macho studs will pretend they couldn't possibly be monogamous
-a few guys with good relationships will talk about how awesome they are

I feel like we've had this thread before.
where's teh witty jpeg or gif?
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Old Aug 25, 2010 | 08:44 AM
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Originally Posted by vector01_hungry,Aug 25 2010, 07:43 AM
and it's funny, having said all this, things still aren't over between me and her. just doing the old "hope for the best but prepare for the worst" bit.
As previously mentioned, I was in a 4 year relationship which ended cause she cheated. It didn't end initially cause I was thinking like you. Hope for the best, expect the worst. Things were never the same for me, my friends and family noticed that I wasn't my usual self. In the end, I couldn't take it we broke things off and then my family and friends noticed how much happier I looked/acted. Various people who were close to me would actually say "you look much happier now"

In the end the decision is up to you, but I honestly think you should end the relationship. Do your own thing for a while and if someone steps into your life don't shoot them down cause of your past relationships. Don't think of all women as being "bad" maybe just think of the women in your past as not being the type of woman you see yourself building a family with.
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Old Aug 25, 2010 | 09:50 AM
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Originally Posted by S2020,Aug 25 2010, 11:32 AM
where's teh witty jpeg or gif?
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Old Aug 25, 2010 | 12:04 PM
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Old Aug 25, 2010 | 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted by s2k harry,Aug 25 2010, 07:10 AM
OP,

all women are different and just cause one screwed you over doesn't mean they all will. I just got out of a 4 year relationship which ended because she cheated. Right now I'm just enjoying being single, doing what I want. I'm not looking for anyone but if I happen to meet someone then I won't pass up on the oppurtunity because of what one person did to me in the past. It wouldn't be fair to that new girl because of the actions of a past relationship. I think it's important to learn from your past experiences and apply them to any new encounters you face. Don't give up on the possibility of a new girlfriend.
I been cheated on in the past too. It didnt really hurt my ego cause I used to be fat and had low self esteem , so in a way I was expecting it. And once I got with a girl easily cause I was the rebound guy, and when she wanted to get back with her ex , its nice that she didnt go around my back and cheat. SHe told me up front and I told her, " thats cool if thats what you want then I will have to respect that".
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Old Aug 25, 2010 | 01:20 PM
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Maybe I'm a freak, but I've been happily married for 38 years. (Last Thursday was our anniversary.) We've had our ups and downs, but it's been a good ride. My wife is my best friend and she works for me in my business.
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Old Aug 25, 2010 | 01:23 PM
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Originally Posted by The Raptor,Aug 25 2010, 01:20 PM
My wife is my boss and I work for her in her business.
we know G.
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Old Aug 25, 2010 | 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted by S2020,Aug 25 2010, 02:23 PM
we know G.
Bite it, Ninh!
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Old Aug 25, 2010 | 02:56 PM
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Originally Posted by S2020,Aug 26 2010, 07:23 AM
we know G.
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