open relationships
Originally Posted by INTJ,Dec 17 2007, 01:53 PM
And, WTF "open relationships" ?! Over half of you are in open relationships and just don't know it.
Originally Posted by Red Dane,Dec 17 2007, 08:32 AM
No,
No sloppy seconds.
No sloppy seconds.
No. I was in a non-serious relationship with a girl for about 3 months that didn't want to be in an exclusive relationship. Worked for about a month then I started bumping into the other guy she was sort of seeing. It worked okay because we were extremely casual. I'd see her when I came down from school on the weekends and once a week or so she'd drive up and spend a day or two. Had it been serious there's no way I could have handled it even for that long.
Originally Posted by Malloric,Dec 20 2007, 10:45 PM
No. I was in a non-serious relationship with a girl for about 3 months that didn't want to be in an exclusive relationship. Worked for about a month then I started bumping into the other guy she was sort of seeing. It worked okay because we were extremely casual. I'd see her when I came down from school on the weekends and once a week or so she'd drive up and spend a day or two. Had it been serious there's no way I could have handled it even for that long.
Slap it.
Hug it.
Love it.
Leave it.
Bonus if you can do that in under half an hour.
very ironic.
my girl and i just took a big break from each other because we want to experience a little more before we actually get married. we still see each other daily..and still of course enjoy each others company
it sucks..but she kinda gave me permission to sleep with another female..sucks for me because i gave her permission to sleep with another guy. i know i'm putting a lot on the line by doing this and we have agreed if and when we actually do go threw with it we will both be tested..it don't matter if a condom was or wasnt used her ass and my ass is getting tested!!
i know we both just want to experience a lil bit more of what life has to offer.. i know by doing this it puts our future relationship in turmoil. But hey..if it was meant to be then we will be together.
so i guess our relationship is sorta open at the moment..i love her, she loves me...we just need to do this for ourselves.
now i typed all that i'm starting to think its kinda stupid and that we are setting our future up for failure. hmm.
my girl and i just took a big break from each other because we want to experience a little more before we actually get married. we still see each other daily..and still of course enjoy each others company

it sucks..but she kinda gave me permission to sleep with another female..sucks for me because i gave her permission to sleep with another guy. i know i'm putting a lot on the line by doing this and we have agreed if and when we actually do go threw with it we will both be tested..it don't matter if a condom was or wasnt used her ass and my ass is getting tested!!
i know we both just want to experience a lil bit more of what life has to offer.. i know by doing this it puts our future relationship in turmoil. But hey..if it was meant to be then we will be together.
so i guess our relationship is sorta open at the moment..i love her, she loves me...we just need to do this for ourselves.
now i typed all that i'm starting to think its kinda stupid and that we are setting our future up for failure. hmm.






