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How long do I wait to ask out a girl
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Its saturday you hoser 
. I don't work on Saturday and neither does she .
Btw, I just found out she broke up with her boyfriend Yesterday. The discussion went something like this.
Her "I broke up with my boyfriend, and he keeps leaving crap on my car and telling me he how bad he wants me back, but I don't want to get back with him"
Me "Ya, that's kind of pathetic"
Her "I'm going to my friends birthday party this weekend"
That concluded our ex boyfriend discussion.
And yes, women love a bad boy. But unless you plan on breaking up in a month you gotta be a bad boy in the bed and good boy to make it last
I'm getting too damn old to swap girls every other month ...
And no, I've never been in what you'd term a bad breakup. I still get along the girls I've dated. Though I avoid them
. I don't work on Saturday and neither does she . Btw, I just found out she broke up with her boyfriend Yesterday. The discussion went something like this.
Her "I broke up with my boyfriend, and he keeps leaving crap on my car and telling me he how bad he wants me back, but I don't want to get back with him"
Me "Ya, that's kind of pathetic"
Her "I'm going to my friends birthday party this weekend"
That concluded our ex boyfriend discussion.
And yes, women love a bad boy. But unless you plan on breaking up in a month you gotta be a bad boy in the bed and good boy to make it last
I'm getting too damn old to swap girls every other month ...
And no, I've never been in what you'd term a bad breakup. I still get along the girls I've dated. Though I avoid them
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Originally Posted by tritium_pie,Dec 9 2005, 09:35 PM
grasshopper, I have a couple hints for ya:
#1 -- a "bad boy" doesn't post a poll asking how long he should wait to ask a girl out. c'mon man. man up. take a look in the mirror and know that you are what this girl f*ckin needs.
which leads to...
#2 -- you forgot to include on your poll "right f*ckin now"
ask her out right f*ckin now. she might say "I just broke up with my bf, blah blah..."
ignore that shit, and tell her like it is: you think she's cute as hell and want to go out and have a good time. do not even get sucked into commenting on the ex. he's yesterday's news and you just plain don't give a f*ck, right? oh, and don't forget to smile.
if she says she needs a bit of time... fine... dis-a-f*ckin-pear for a week. she'll think about you. and will that much sooner forget about what's-his-name.
next time you see her, just be cool... maybe make eye contact and smile... play it cool... then, when you've got a chance to talk to her alone... ask her out again. and once again, don't forget to smile. sorry, but you just don't really give a shit about that other guy... he's old news... and you want her. period. it takes balls-- you gotta have em, and she's gotta know it.
would a silverback gorilla f*ckin wait around for a female to get over the death of some other silverback?! f*ck no man.
would a male lion give a hot shit? only if it was after he consumed the carcass of the last male lion who thought he was the baddest lion on the plain.
are you an alpha male? are you a bad boy? are you man enough? then step the f*ck up and ask her out. otherwise, step aside because a guy with balls will step the f*ck up and steal her away... while you're at home still tabulating the results of your poll.
don't mean to be harsh, but hey... go f*ckin get that girl. take it from a guy who has won the heart of a damn fine girl who has been straight up crazy about me for goin on 2 years...
#1 -- a "bad boy" doesn't post a poll asking how long he should wait to ask a girl out. c'mon man. man up. take a look in the mirror and know that you are what this girl f*ckin needs.
which leads to...
#2 -- you forgot to include on your poll "right f*ckin now"
ask her out right f*ckin now. she might say "I just broke up with my bf, blah blah..."
ignore that shit, and tell her like it is: you think she's cute as hell and want to go out and have a good time. do not even get sucked into commenting on the ex. he's yesterday's news and you just plain don't give a f*ck, right? oh, and don't forget to smile.
if she says she needs a bit of time... fine... dis-a-f*ckin-pear for a week. she'll think about you. and will that much sooner forget about what's-his-name.
next time you see her, just be cool... maybe make eye contact and smile... play it cool... then, when you've got a chance to talk to her alone... ask her out again. and once again, don't forget to smile. sorry, but you just don't really give a shit about that other guy... he's old news... and you want her. period. it takes balls-- you gotta have em, and she's gotta know it.
would a silverback gorilla f*ckin wait around for a female to get over the death of some other silverback?! f*ck no man.
would a male lion give a hot shit? only if it was after he consumed the carcass of the last male lion who thought he was the baddest lion on the plain.
are you an alpha male? are you a bad boy? are you man enough? then step the f*ck up and ask her out. otherwise, step aside because a guy with balls will step the f*ck up and steal her away... while you're at home still tabulating the results of your poll.
don't mean to be harsh, but hey... go f*ckin get that girl. take it from a guy who has won the heart of a damn fine girl who has been straight up crazy about me for goin on 2 years...
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I concur with Tritium.
BTW: YOU ARE ALWAYS WORKING ON SATURDAY!!!!
YOU ARE NEVER AVAILABLE ON SATURDAYS!!!!
1. Pick up the phone only on Sunday (after 5pm)-Thursday
2. Close the deal after 10pm
3. No coffee dates
4. Avoid dinner dates
5. Don't spend more than $50/date.
6. Be nice, but not too nice.
7. Don't get fixated on just her. You can create competition, not be a victim of it.
BTW: YOU ARE ALWAYS WORKING ON SATURDAY!!!!
YOU ARE NEVER AVAILABLE ON SATURDAYS!!!! 1. Pick up the phone only on Sunday (after 5pm)-Thursday
2. Close the deal after 10pm
3. No coffee dates
4. Avoid dinner dates
5. Don't spend more than $50/date.
6. Be nice, but not too nice.
7. Don't get fixated on just her. You can create competition, not be a victim of it.
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Originally Posted by 8D_In_Trunk,Dec 11 2005, 01:23 PM
I concur with Tritium.
BTW: YOU ARE ALWAYS WORKING ON SATURDAY!!!! YOU ARE NEVER AVAILABLE ON SATURDAYS!!!!
1. Pick up the phone only on Sunday (after 5pm)-Thursday
2. Close the deal after 10pm
3. No coffee dates
4. Avoid dinner dates
5. Don't spend more than $50/date.
6. Be nice, but not too nice.
7. Don't get fixated on just her. You can create competition, not be a victim of it.
BTW: YOU ARE ALWAYS WORKING ON SATURDAY!!!!
YOU ARE NEVER AVAILABLE ON SATURDAYS!!!! 1. Pick up the phone only on Sunday (after 5pm)-Thursday
2. Close the deal after 10pm
3. No coffee dates
4. Avoid dinner dates
5. Don't spend more than $50/date.
6. Be nice, but not too nice.
7. Don't get fixated on just her. You can create competition, not be a victim of it.
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From: limerick
Keep it light always.
I have two comments
Not always true often just insecure inexperienced men who think the girl is too pretty for them or she has had cheated.
I also put 2 months because you seem too eager. even if she oges out with you if you don't take it easy you're dumped inside of a month.
Chill out, she knows you're interested. Now you just have to play is cool. The timing is critical and you need to act when you know it right there isn't a formula for this situation. I recommend doc love articles at askmen.com to help you out. Way better advice then you'll get here. Hey if he can get me to scam a few dozen dates he can help you for sure.
I have two comments
The other little tidbit is that people who are excessively jealous/suspicious are usually that way because they themselves have/are cheating.
I also put 2 months because you seem too eager. even if she oges out with you if you don't take it easy you're dumped inside of a month.
Chill out, she knows you're interested. Now you just have to play is cool. The timing is critical and you need to act when you know it right there isn't a formula for this situation. I recommend doc love articles at askmen.com to help you out. Way better advice then you'll get here. Hey if he can get me to scam a few dozen dates he can help you for sure.
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